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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-09-04 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #4625 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4625 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom secrets

(Anonymous) 2019-09-05 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Apparently, he's never changed his daughter's diaper or given her a bath.

Yeeeeeeeah, that's bullshit, right there. No way would I let any husband of mine get a pass on that. God, my dad did that for me and my sister, and this was back in the '80s. I remember my mom talking about how her co-workers seemed genuinely surprised that my dad helped out with me and my sister, because that just wasn't what guys did. My mom was like, "Well, he's their DAD, so...".

I'm sorry your friend's having so much stress with her husband. I hope she does find a solution to her problems with him, and hopefully he'll grow up and do his part, too. I'm going to be 35 in about a month and I'm not married, but if I ever do get married, I definitely want a relationship like the sort you mention your other friends having.
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Re: Non-fandom secrets

[personal profile] philstar22 2019-09-05 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yup. I have a lot of issues with my dad, but this is not one of them. He always carried his share of the load. They split things fairly evenly. And, in fact, while my dad was in seminary and my mom was working full time plus to support us all, he was actually doing most of the house stuff and taking care of us. They still split the chores fairly evenly.