[ SECRET POST #4625 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4625 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: Enterprise]


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[Horatio Hornblower]


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Comments

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

AMAB Genderqueer: You seem to be confusing gender expression and behavior with gender identity and psychology. So the ugly reality is that looking at being trans is kind of a rock-bottom, last-resort thing. I don't see how I can live with the stress of passing as a man for the next 20 years. I've been doing it for about 30 years now and I've hit my limit. I have a trans therapist and support group now, and being on that path has been much more helpful than the previous two decades of pro-feminist psych for men.

So ... historically speaking trans people often have had history within queer GNC counter-cultures. A fair number of transmasculine people, binary or nonbinary, get their start within butch culture. Les Feinberg is one of the go-to sources for talking about that. Similarly, lots of trans people get training wheels within friendly counter-cultures like punk or goth. That's ok too. And maybe they're "trenders" or maybe they're newly hatched "eggs." You can't figure that out by keeping a scorecard of what they do in your sight and how they do it.

Re: Non-fandom secrets

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks. Someone else here pointed out how it's about what you feel like mentally vs. what you wear, and that made sense to me, since I still am/feel like a girl even though I don't wear the most stereotypically "girly" clothes.