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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-01-10 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #4753 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4753 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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04. [SPOILERS for Sanditon]

[Lord Babington/Esther Denham]


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05. [SPOILERS for Legion]



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06. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who, Life Is Strange]



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08. [WARNING for discussion of abuse]



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09. [WARNING for discussion of sexual abuse of a minor]
















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[personal profile] meredith44 2020-01-11 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
I was once into minor/adult pairings. When I was a minor and was crushing on older people/chatacters. I'm sure I was/am not alone in that. From what I understand from other kinks (like noncon), a lot of the time people are projecting on the younger/weaker one, so they absolutely would not be interested in a relationship where they were the adult dating a minor.

I will admit that it squicks me to see minors in sexual situations even in fiction or to see them sexualized as in loli/shota. And I knew someone who was into young characters who ended up getting in trouble for chatting with a 16-year-old. So I'm not saying everyone has to not be upset by it/want to see it or that there is no bleed over with some people. But I'm saying it isn't a 1:1 correspondence, where someone into it is definitely going to abuse people in real life. And I agree with the OP that focusing on things like this meaning that those people are perverts while people who only like wholesome things are never perverts is a dangerous mindset to get into.