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Job then move out of my parent's home. Become fluent in Spanish.

My sister wanted to get back into running after two difficult pregnancies and raising two small humans close in age so I agreed to sign up for a half marathon with her. It's in October.

So my goal is to get to the point where I can run a half marathon without dying. I completed Couch to 5K at the end of 2018 and have stuck with running 2-3 miles at least twice a week so can already do 5K fairly easily. It's just a case of defeating my worries that I won't be able to do a massively increased distance.

I'm in my 30s and HATED running at school. The fact I picked up running a couple of years ago at my age is a miracle in itself!

That's so cool of you to support your sister!
And you've already worked super hard at improving your fitness and showed a lot of determination by doing the couch to 5k, so you should have no problems working up to a half marathon!

I know you didn't specifically ask for advice, so feel free to ignore this if it isn't of any interest/use to you, but DareBee have a program for building up to running a half marathon (as well as lots of other free fitness programs)
https://darebee.com/running/half-marathon-training.html

Thank you - my sister suffered from sepsis after her first pregnancy and still struggled with elements of post-sepsis syndrome even during her pregnancy with her second so I think it's important to her to feel normal again. She loves her kids obviously but being a mum isn't all she wants to be so when she said she wanted to do this course again (it's one of her favourites) but wasn't keen on being alone I knew I had to be the big sister I sometimes failed to be when we were younger.

I know I didn't ask for advice but I honestly very much appreciate it! Trying to maintain this level of fitness is a big deal for me and I'll take all the help I can get. Thank you for the link to a training program. I've got to work out a time frame because I don't want to go all out too early but I need to work up to it now we're in 2020. I'm aiming to make a serious half marathon training effort with at least 12 weeks to go until race day, but building some of my strength now isn't a bad thing!

Lose weight. The meds I'm on apparently often cause people to lose weight, and I have lost some, but I'm still morbidly obese. I try to exercise every day, but I just get so... weary? It's not quite like being physically tired, it's more emotional.
Oh wait, that's the depression.

My big goal for the year is find a new shrink. I haven't been to any sort of mental healthcare professional in about a year, and I hated the last one I saw :/

I'm in the same boat as you. I've lost some weight since I got put on this migraine med about 6 months ago that causes weight loss, but I'm still morbidly obese (I'm on 3 other meds that cause weight gain, and I used to be on a migraine med that caused weight gain). I still can't exercise as I'm still using a cane post-foot surgery, so I have to stick to diet. I'm doing better than I used to, but I still have trouble saying no to chocolate when I'm stressed.

I hope you find a good therapist. I need to call mine. I had just started seeing a new one before I had surgery, so I haven't talked to her since early November. Need to find her number and call her.

Shrink shopping is exhausting, I feel you. :/ Like it's already using up so much mental energy to just get an appointment and go, having it be a bad fit and having to go to square one is kinda crushing. I hope whichever one you find next works out much better for you, anon. ♥

I completely empathize, it's so important to find a shrink you get along well with. I was mostly lucky enough to get good ones but I also had a couple of real stinkers.

The last one I saw declared that losing weight was simple, which was about the point that I decided I wasn't going to get anything out of seeing him.

god, what a jerk. hugs if you want.

thanks

Learn something so that I can hopefully get a remote job. Supply chain? Coding? Project management? I don't know. ;_;

Move house. Please god or any demonic entity that is listening, let's make this happen.

Cure whatever the fuck is hurting me, and ASAP, so that I can dance again.

Start writing regularly again...fanfiction and/or original fiction.

I feel this.

Oh yes, I know I'm not alone. I've just been so not in the right headspace to write for ages now and I no longer care what write, I'd just like to sit down and lose myself for a few hours creating something the way I used to do. :(

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