[ SECRET POST #4756 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4756 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Sorry it's so late, thought I posted this already.

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 28 secrets from Secret Submission Post #681.
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It's a tricky situation, and I'm not sure that it's something you can really solve just by phrasing it better if it really is the case (as it comes across in the secret) that you think he's sexy and love him, but in a basically different way from the kind of attraction you have to thicc manly bodies. And I don't even know if it's unreasonable for him to be insecure about that.

[(Anonymous)]

Seconding this. Like, obviously it’s completely okay for you to be attracted to thicc, manly hunks, but the flip-side of that is…I can’t really imagine him not feeling a bit insecure if he’s the opposite of that.

Like, If I was with a guy who talked, even just from time to time, about having a preference for curvaceous women with big breasts and hips, I would definitely feel insecure. I like how I look and I like my thin, non-curvaceous body, but I’d still be insecure that his type was the opposite of me, the girl he was actually with.

OP, if you think you can be genuine and natural about it, I’d suggest you could make a point of complimenting something about his physical appearance every so often (be sparing about it though or it’ll probably feel false). Make sure he knows you find him attractive in his own right. “Fuck, you look good in that sweater,” or “Your jawline makes me just want to bite it sometimes,” is a huge ego-stroke, and really detracts focus from the thought that some guys out there are more your type than he is.

[(Anonymous)]

SA I just want to clarify because I should have made it more explicit that OP is not doing anything wrong in the equation either it's just one of those things