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(Anonymous) 2020-02-26 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)(actually speaking of B99 Kevin and Holt are like the perfect couple imo)
Personally I'm a huge fan of best friend type ships so, while I don't watch Scrubs, I'm pretty sure they'd be my ship. It has more to do with dynamic than their race I would say, so I wouldn't feel too guilty if I were you.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-26 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)A vaguely on-topic anecdote: The writers of Scrubs received a lot of letters from men that said that seeing JD and Turk's intimate friendship on TV helped them out on making their own platonic friendships more intimate and personal since it the chance of it being seen as gay in IRL society was lessened. IDK, I'm just thinking about the show in general now fandom aside, and I still appreciate how good of a show it was.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-26 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)(I don't think anyone should be obligated to ship a certain way, but the idea that people don't ship a pairing exclusively because of the dynamic and race has nothing to do with it is exhausting when there's a million examples to the contrary. It's not a tenable argument)
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-26 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)What I said was "Those are only my personal feelings however, and maybe someone else can make a romantic dynamic work." Like me personally, I don't ship it and am not sure how to. I give everybody else the freedom to ship it. What I was trying to say to OP is that it's fine if they don't specifically ship it either.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-26 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)like no one ships best friends at all! it's so rare!
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 12:05 am (UTC)(link)And pointing at the few interracial ships that actually do get some kind of notice doesn't change the fact that a majority of them don't, even when the dynamics are the exact kind that would get oodles of content if it was two white guys(or guy/girl) instead.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 02:01 am (UTC)(link)I'd like to talk about the dynamics myself if you don't mind, but only if you want to. People are jumping on you enough as it is that I'd understand if you wouldn't want to;;
I love the anecdote btw! I remember a couple of friends who got broken up in highschool because they were close and people made jokes about it... It always upset me, so I'm glad there's a show that allows people to just be best friends and not be weirded out by it for whatever reason.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 02:13 am (UTC)(link)If you aren't discarding CoC and ignoring them as shippable characters, then you're not what we're talking about.
I actually agree with your points about these two and the show depicting a wonderfully close and loving m+m friendship was a good thing, and something I very much enjoyed about it. But this discussion isn't about how they are in the show, it's about how fandom looks at a dynamic like theirs between a WC+CoC and deems it 'unshippable' when were they two white guys everyone would love them and cite them as 'so gay'.
sorry I'm not in the mood for bullshit
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 12:01 am (UTC)(link)insofar as turk goes though i could ship him with carla or JD(or both) tbh, they were both really good and fun dynamics.
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instead of feeling guilty, look at your ships. do you have ANY POC ships? If not, why not? Do you not really watch many shows with dynamic POC? If you do have POC ships, why do you like that dynamic? You don't necessarily have to do anything about any of these questions, but it's a good idea to think about what interests you and why.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 12:11 am (UTC)(link)I'd not blame anyone for not being attracted to characters with certain characteristics.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 12:55 am (UTC)(link)But I do have OTPs with characters of color (like Sam/Steve and Heimdall/Thor/Loki) in other media so I think I can say it's just the dynamic in this particular instance that doesn't work for me.
I think the real problem is having only one character of color on a show. If the character type they portray or the dynamic with other characters doesn't work for you, you only have that one character of color versus (often) several different white characters with a variety of personalities. It increases the odds that there's someone to be fannish about among the white characters just by the law of averages. Solution should be to have more characters of color on any given show.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 01:42 am (UTC)(link)Unless you're going around telling people that they shouldn't ship JD/Turk or making some kind of hatepost about it, you liking another ship isn't going to take away the existence of that ship in the first place. Its not like you owe anyone your free time about it.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 02:57 am (UTC)(link)Anyway, feeling guilty about not shipping something that includes a CoC is unproductive. If this is a pattern for OP they may choose to examine it, but even then forcing themselves to like the ship would be useless. It'd make them miserable and it wouldn't help the fans either.
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(Anonymous) 2020-02-27 05:18 am (UTC)(link)Though, while JD and Cox aren't the type of ship I usually go for, I can definitely see it. The blindly adoring puppy love of early seasons matures into something where JD really sees Cox as a person with flaws and needs.