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Comments

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

Sex is overrated and weird and somewhat gross and I really don't understand why everyone is so obsessed with it.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly, to some extent, libido doesn't give you much choice. When your libido's up, sex tends to be very, very appealing.

My libido's never been all that high, but there was a while in my early twenties where it spiked a bit, and wow, there were a couple of days a month where being preoccupied with sex was non-optional. Just the thought of the smut I was going to get off to when I got home was enough to get me aroused.

I went on birth control and my libidos been around a 2/10 ever since. And frankly, the way you experience sex when your libido isn't driving you to it is, IMO, quite different from the way you experience it when your libido is heavily involved. When you get horny enough, it's almost an altered state of mind.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

There are some foods that I think are delicious, but can only handle in small amounts before I start feeling sick. Realistically I wonder why I keep eating them, but I regularly find myself craving them so much that I can't stop thinking about them until I go and get some to satisfy that craving.

I think sex is kind of like that. You just feel compelled to do it because you know how great it is for just a little bit and it always seems worth it when you're thinking about it before doing it.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

I mean. It feels great? Yeah it's messy and objectively a little gross but the whole point is feeling good and making your partner feel good. Physical connections with a partner produce oxytocin and make you feel closer and more intimate. Orgasms flood you with endorphins and dopamine. It's amazing. Even if the sex isn't like... mindblowing (which it often isn't!), just being there and enjoying each other is such a nice thing.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

I mean. It feels great?

I guess? I mean, sure, orgasms feel good, but in a sort of shallow/superficial way, if that makes any sense. Like, personally, I get way more enjoyment out of listening to a good song or reading a good book.

Physical connections with a partner produce oxytocin and make you feel closer and more intimate.

Not for me. Every time I've done it, the only feeling I've felt is resentment towards them for making me do something I don't like and don't want to be doing.

(I realize that I'm totally weird in this, just sharing how it is for me/why I feel the way I do!)

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

Huh, I feel the exact same way about all of this, like to an absolute T.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

ayrt

Well at least there are two of us who are weirdos! :D

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

100% Agreed!

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

I just wish we didn't have such a weird relationship with it, or shame folks into not following others' standards. You are not weird if you want it all the time. You are not weird if you don't want it at all. I imagine a lot of people fall somewhere in between, and there are times they may not want it.

The thing I really hate the most -- and this is just me talking -- I hate that something so private and intimate that you share with another person "has" to be shared with others, as if there's no other way of bonding with people you don't have sex with. Or as if there is a score that's being kept, or that something's wrong with you if you don't sleep with this many people by the time you're whatever age. I don't get why people can't just fuck who they want to fuck (or not) and not have it be everyone's business. I mean, aside from legal/statutory issues or LTR/extramarital affairs, it really isn't anyone else's business.

Re: Unpopular Opinions

[(Anonymous)]

This pretty much sums up how I feel, too.