case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-02-22 05:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #5162 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5162 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



__________________________________________________



02.


__________________________________________________


03.


__________________________________________________



04.


__________________________________________________



05.


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 32 secrets from Secret Submission Post #739.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-23 02:39 am (UTC)(link)
I have a friend who I lost touch with after she got married. A few months ago, she reached out to me so we could reconnect. She was going through a rough patch in her marriage and said she didn't have any friends to turn to. I was sorry to hear about her marriage issues, but I did want to reconnect with her, so we started messaging back and forth. Then she slowly started drifting away again. I sent her birthday and Christmas cards, and she never even texted me a thank you. I feel a little . . . used? Kind of? When we were younger, she did have a habit of dropping her friends for her boyfriends and then wanting to hang out all the time when she broke up with them, so now I'm wondering if her issues with her husband have been resolved and she's decided to dump me now that she doesn't need somebody to vent to. I almost want to call her out on this, but she left my last message on read, so I dunno.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-23 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
I've had "friends" like that, too. They suck.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2021-02-23 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry, nonny. Your friend sucks.

If you never want to talk to this friend ever again, you're perfectly withing reason to do so. I don't think she is worth the effort to call out no matter how things might play out (whether she responds or not). IMO cut things off with this toxic friend, and if she ever comes knocking around, you have every right to tell her she's a shitty person.

See her public? Pull a Mariah Carey and say, "I don't know her."