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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-03-22 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #5190 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5190 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm starting to get Strikethrough feels from the current crop of 🐜🐜🐜🐜

Strikethrough was round 1.

The gamer-getters were round 2.

The alt-right is round 3.

These little shitlords are round 4.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
You are basing this conclusion on nothing more than OP's hypothetical fears

Also none of the people from the first three examples actually went away

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel like comparing these kids to the alt-right is a bit much

+1

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 01:14 am (UTC)(link)
Considering antis are known to have bullied multiple people to suicide/attempts, I don't think it's inappropriate to compare them to other groups known for hateful views that end up causing real-world harm.

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
You're just NOW getting Strikethrough feels from FS?

I'm hitting this comm up for the first time in months going, oh right, that's why I stopped. It's the Warriors for Innocence in different uniforms.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
It's the who?

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
You've misread the comment. They're talking about antis, not FS.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
You're not alone OP. There are things I've made that even if there isn't anything explicit or problematic on it I've got paranoid that people are going to find something anyway. But it's probably not as big of a deal and I just have to learn to shake off the fear.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
No one on tumblr gives a shit about that, dude. Maybe if they were dicking each other down and doing creampies and pearl necklaces, maybe.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
Really? Have you even been on tumblr in the last decade?

Because I've seen people on tumblr lose their shit over people "sexualizing children" because someone drew some fanart of a couple of little kids wearing bathing suits on the beach and building a sand castle.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
And yet there's still plenty of art depicting underage characters in love even on Tumblr. If the OP is planning to go no further than kiss, they'll be fine.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Holy shit, this isn't really that much of a thing as you guys make it

(Anonymous) 2021-03-22 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
I was going to say, if you're worried about writing about 17 year olds just falling in love and kissing, you're in good company with every YA author ever...

...and then I remembered what happened to John Green. So I wish I could say your fears are completely unfounded, but if you unlucky enough to draw the attention of people like that, I think it could really happen.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
What happened to John Green?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
I only know John Green from when Tumblr chased him off the site by editing his posts to be about porn.

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
It happened to John Green because he's John Green. Aside from the huge level of fame, he's always been more connected to Internet communities than your average author. Hell, he still is, just not on Tumblr. I watched a YT video of him just the other day. So what they did to him was trash but he's not canceled, and obviously the YA romance genre chugs on as it ever did.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Eh. Maybe so. Have you considered posting the story on a fresh blank account that's not connected to any of your other online personas? If people do get mad, they have no way of knowing your age or who you are, so it shouldn't matter as much.
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[personal profile] rudehannibal 2021-03-23 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
I started writing a high school AU of my OTP after having a dream about it and no one has complained to my face about it yet. I'm just worried that if/when the fic becomes more sexual, people WILL start to come out of the woodwork. I don't think adults writing about teens having sex means they're paedophiles or whatever. Teens have sex. Even adults can acknowledge this without being 'predators' or however the antis want to frame it?

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
White people find the weirdest things to imagine themselves oppressed for.

OP

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 08:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not white you douche. I'm also trans. Still afraid of the social media mob.

You fucking idiot.

(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 07:12 am (UTC)(link)
Antis are awful but you are ceding way too much power over to them. You're turning them into huge boogeymen that succeed at silencing people without even having to interact with them at this point.

If you're not comfortable attaching your name to something, do what we've always done on the Internet and post it anonymously. And before that one anon comes in to fear-monger about "tech-savvy" antis who can suss out your identity, really think about that claim for a minute. You think anyone will go to that much effort over some no-name Internet person?

I don't know if it's paranoia or narcissism or a mixture of both...

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-23 06:33 pm (UTC)(link)
From what I understand it, it's more the fear of word of mouth and reputation. Even if the word "pedophile" is becoming so exaggerated in fandom and internet circles, with the actual harm to minors becoming muddied in the waters, people are still terrified of being accused of that.

Who accuses you? Do they exaggerate your story? Will this person that you only met once embellish a story to ruin your reputation for their own or because they hate you? How many would believe it? Those are things that can run through a person's mind.

A lie can travel halfway around the world while the truth is still getting its shoes on.

I have seen friends that were accused of similarly horrible behavior in social media, and that can cause you to lose your job, your family, your friends. It is absolute terror for which the accused also deserves the help and the time to say their piece.

Even if the people accusing you are nobodies, they can still cause genuine harm. Not only to the person if they turn out to be innocent, but to the victims of the actual crimes the moment people stop believing the accusations.

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(Anonymous) 2021-03-24 11:58 am (UTC)(link)
The only way to be absolutely safe if you have this level of fear is to cease interaction with all human beings, period. It's just as likely that you'll piss off a rando at work and they'll spread horrible lies about you. In fact, it's more likely. There are literally millions of fanfics on the Internet, many of them way more questionable than a story in which high school-aged teens kiss (???). For all the grief antis have caused, I've yet to see even them reach that far.