[ SECRET POST #5257 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5257 ⌋

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[The Green Knight (2021)]


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10. [WARNING for discussion of child abuse]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

you literally have no idea what abuse is. what a fucking fraud

[(Anonymous)]

This was my point EXACTLY?

Some people will say that they had abusive parents or call out other people's "abusive parents" but they're really talking about parents who weren't great at taking care of their children, but legit tried. Abuse isn't something so trivial that you can throw every parent who wasn't a textbook parent in the same box.

Thank you for getting it, even if belated. I don't have anything to prove anyone as an anonymous other than a point.

[(Anonymous)]

your point is that you don't know what abuse is...?

[(Anonymous)]

What IS abuse to you? Is my point.

As you can see by the reply below, they're saying that a shitty parent who may have tried their best is abusive. Would you agree? I would beg to differ. I think there are varied degrees of being a less-than-ideal parent, but to me not all of them are abusive.

[(Anonymous)]

it's not a matter of your definition. words have meanings. abuse is abuse regardless of intent. psychological abuse is abuse. learn what the fuck abuse is before you run around whining that everyone gets it wrong

[(Anonymous)]

This whole words have meanings is such bullshit. I don't even know if this word has the same meaning to you as it has to me because we speak different languages. Yes, they have meanings and their meaning is easily changed, or, worse, distorted. But it's easy to say that someone with a poor upbringing was "psychologically abused" when the world didn't give the family any resources.

[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT-- parents can lack resources and try their best and love their kids and still be abusive, holy shit. I loved my parents and they loved me and they absolutely should not have been parents--this is pedophile grandpa, schizophrenic addict dad, alcoholic mom anon. Trying their best doesn't let them off the hook for abuse, fucking hell.

[(Anonymous)]

Do I have to say this again? Great, this is how you feel abt your life and family. I feel differently about mine (naturally). We're different individuals with different thoughts and opinions. So? Why should I try to make you feel what I feel or vice versa? What do I have to do with your life?

Have any of those outsiders who trash talk your family actually helped you in getting over it? If they have, great for you. We are different in that sense.

And I really don't care either way, as I am not your therapist

[(Anonymous)]

(In other words: some abusers should be held accountable, but some were just mistaken. Were denied an abortion or went bankrupt with 6 children or whatever. I'm giving lousy examples because honestly I am tired of being attacked. Bye)

[(Anonymous)]

Don't start shit by saying an abused character didn't have it that bad, psycho bitch.

[(Anonymous)]

Re-read this whole thread and call me a psycho bitch again. You're rolling on assumptions.

[(Anonymous)]

"trying" does not keep you from being abusive. you can abuse your child by being a shitty parent. i'm sorry that your parents abused you and that you're apparently so triggered by the very subject that you need to tell everyone on the internet that no, parents who REALLY TRIED aren't abusive and children of parents who REALLY TRIED don't need therapy.

but mate, if you'd been to therapy maybe you'd recognise that your obsession with that point is weird.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah mate all I am saying is that some people are so fucking privileged that they can't look at the world as it is. Thanks for proving my point.

[(Anonymous)]

Says the privileged person.

[(Anonymous)]

Me, from the beginning: I wish people weren't so "oh you have to go to therapy" about less-than-ideal parenting (heard it a lot myself), that's some privileged shit, not everyone is or ever ends up being in a great position in life :/
You: You have to go to therapy

*shrug*

[(Anonymous)]

You implied that people who go to therapy aren't mature or adult enough to just get over it.

[(Anonymous)]

What the hell, I said three times over that all I expect is for people to be happy and not feel like their life is over because they were abused and I liked the movie because I felt this message lol.