case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2009-02-06 04:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #763 ]


⌈ Secret Post #763 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

101.


__________________________________________________



102.
[Drake and Josh]


__________________________________________________



103.


__________________________________________________



104.
[BSG]


__________________________________________________



105.


__________________________________________________



106.


__________________________________________________



107.
[Vampire Knight]


__________________________________________________



108.
[Demons]


__________________________________________________



109.


__________________________________________________



110.
[Life]


__________________________________________________



111.
[Roswell]


__________________________________________________



112.
[Ga-Rei -Zero-]


__________________________________________________



113.


__________________________________________________



114.
[Sailor Moon]


__________________________________________________



115.
[Pretty Guardian Sailor Moon]


__________________________________________________



116.


__________________________________________________



117.


__________________________________________________



118.
[Persona 4]


__________________________________________________



119.
[Ryan Ross; Panic! at the Disco]


__________________________________________________



120.
[Persona 4]


__________________________________________________



121.


__________________________________________________



122.


__________________________________________________



123.
[Bleach, Yoruichi]


__________________________________________________



124.
[Celtic Thunder]


__________________________________________________



125.


__________________________________________________



126.
[Underworld Trilogy]


__________________________________________________



127.


__________________________________________________



128.
[Ursula, the Little Mermaid]


__________________________________________________



129.
[Guiding Light]


__________________________________________________



130.
[CyberSix]


__________________________________________________



131.


__________________________________________________



132.


__________________________________________________



133.


__________________________________________________



134.
[FT Island]


__________________________________________________



135.


__________________________________________________



136.
[Big Fat Quiz of the Year]


__________________________________________________



137.


__________________________________________________



138.


__________________________________________________



139.
[Torchwood]


__________________________________________________



140.


__________________________________________________



141.


__________________________________________________



142.


__________________________________________________



143.
[Runaways, Karolina/Xavin]


__________________________________________________



144.


__________________________________________________



145.
[Simpsons, Rod and Todd]


__________________________________________________



146.
[Joe Loves Crappy Movies (webcomic), Twilight]


__________________________________________________



147.
[Utena]


__________________________________________________



148.
[Doctor Who/RPS/Russell T. Davies/Benjamin Cook]


__________________________________________________



149.
[The Munsters]


__________________________________________________



150.
[Adventures of Pete and Pete]


__________________________________________________



151.


__________________________________________________



152.


__________________________________________________



153.
[Jimi Hendrix/Janis Joplin]


__________________________________________________



154.
[Taylor Lautner; Twilight Movies]


__________________________________________________



155.
[FF13]


__________________________________________________



156.


__________________________________________________



157.


__________________________________________________



158.
[Nick Swardson]


__________________________________________________



159.


__________________________________________________



160.


__________________________________________________



161.


__________________________________________________



162.


__________________________________________________



163.
(Rachel Maddow, Susan Mikula, Keith Olbermann)


__________________________________________________



164.


__________________________________________________



165.


__________________________________________________



166.


__________________________________________________



167.


__________________________________________________



168.


__________________________________________________



169.
[Earth: Final Conflict, Da'an]


__________________________________________________



170.


__________________________________________________



171.


__________________________________________________



172.
[Ouran, Persona 4]


__________________________________________________



173.



Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #109.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - doing it wrong ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-06 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
whut .. assumed straight men can be shipped or considered to be shipped with guys, but lesbians can't be written romantically/sexually with guys?

Pretty much, yeah. At least for now, because if you haven't noticed, the environment and general representation for straights and gays is not the same.

Also, see word assumed, which you yourself use. For the most part, straight folks, whether real or fictional, are assumed straight. They rarely come outright and say they're straight. Probably because they don't have to, because straight is the default and that's what everyone assumes you are unless you say otherwise. Point being, it's possible, theoretically, some of these people are bisexual/bi-curious/whatever and just haven't said so. On the other hand, gay folks usually say outright that they are gay, going back to the point that they have to least people assume we're all straight. So in many cases, "straight" is an assumption whereas "gay" is a fact.

Secondly, because of this assumption and how society works, there also leaves more room for self-exploration and realization. When people are growing up, we're treated as if we're straight, the default. As such, someone who says they are straight rarely spends the time to really examine their feelings and such. That doesn't mean we should doubt everyone who says they're straight, but it's true. Again, on the other hand, because of this, gay folks in general spend quite some time first feeling different, then realizing what that difference is, thinking about it, thinking about how to come out to people, coming out, etc. For a lot of people, it is a process that takes includes quite a bit of introspection. It is a lot more likely that someone who's 30-something will come out as gay than someone who's 30-something will go "oops, I didn't mean to come out as gay! I'm really bi/straight!"

Thirdly, ever heard of reparative therapy? Or maybe "she's not really a lesbian, she just hasn't found the right man yet"? No one seriously says that to straight people. No one is shipping straight people off to camps or therapy to turn them gay. But people do try to turn gay people straight in real life, and for some people doing the same thing in fanfiction hits a little bit too close to home.

Does that make sense?

The anon above me also brings up a good point I hadn't thought of before. Rachel Maddow isn't just a lesbian, but it is a part of who she is, and what she has done is an accomplishment. Writing fic about one straight dude in a gay relationship doesn't change the fact that news is dominated by straight men. (It's sort of like when people say "BARACK OBAMA IS HALF-WHITE TOO!!!1" okay, yeah, sure he is. But it's not like it's a miracle for a white dude to win the presidency.)

It may "just fanon," and I think it's fine to think they're cute together, because they are. But it's not just fanfiction because you still can't be just gay. It's still a political issue -- not just homosexuality as an abstract, but gay people -- without a level playing ground.

(Anonymous) 2009-02-07 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
And treating people with a double standard in regards to shipping is going to make it better? If anything, it's setting people on an equal setting, saying we don't really give a damn about gender divides or orientation divides, which is really how it should be.

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
No, because if two people/groups are not on equal ground, treating them in one respect online like they are, and ignoring the inequality or what causes it, does not change that fact that the inequality still exists.

Like I've said in other comments, I'm not going to harass someone for writing Keith/Rachel. I don't like it, but whatever. However, acting like "if anything" it's actually fixing the problems mentioned above is silly.
ext_28040: ([ text ] anime girl: "wank!")

[identity profile] orbitaldiamonds.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I get where you're coming from, but it's FANFICTION. And fanfiction is a writing-out of one's daydreams.

I know the punditry and fandom are about politics, but to get political about fanfiction--that's just self-righteous wank.

I'd like to see more Rachel femmeslash because Rachel IS a lesbian and should damned well be treated as such. In fact, I didn't like K/R for the longest time. But the K/R fic that I've read has been so awesome and cracky and well-written that I came to love the pairing.

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
I know the punditry and fandom are about politics, but to get political about fanfiction--that's just self-righteous wank.

No, it's not. In the long run, I don't really care if people read or write (romantic) Keith/Rachel. I don't like it personally, but I'm not going to harass someone for doing so.

However, that doesn't mean that there aren't real issues involved. There is merit to discussing whatever kind of politics are involved in fandom, whether it's homophobia or racism or sexism or what have you. I do think there are valid reasons for not liking/writing such fanfiction that are rooted in very real issues, just as with other issues in fandom.

You or others may not agree or want to participate in such discussions, but that doesn't mean talking about it is just "self-righteous wank." Puhlease.
ext_28040: (Default)

[identity profile] orbitaldiamonds.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
Okay. I can kinda see where you're coming from. But there's a very thin line between fandom discussing fandom, and self-righteous wank. You've got a foot on each side of the line.
ext_28040: (Default)

[identity profile] orbitaldiamonds.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
You have indeed.

[identity profile] sexonastick.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
We don't really even have fandoms in common (except for the interest in politics) and I still want to friend you based solely on how refreshing your response is. Too much willful flaunting of privilege on LJ lately and it's hard for people to keep their cool in response -- especially when being told that thinking about the things you write is somehow wanky. (Yes, in fandom of all places, it's better to pretend that words have no power or meaning. Um, then why are people bothering to write?)

It's possible to dislike the connotations of something and to be willing to engage in a discussion about that without actively boycotting it, but a lot of people who don't want their "squee harshed" in any way shape or form seem unable to grasp that. If you say anything that might make fandom feel even slightly less liberal than it imagines itself to be, people always think you're doing it just to be an asshole.

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-08 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you. ♥ It's nice to know I'm not alone in here in my thoughts.

I really shouldn't be surprised, I guess. Fandom has a loooong, well-known history of not wanting their squee harshed, refusing to talk about anything in the real world no matter how it relates to fandom. But I will always fail to understand why it's so bad to talk about these things (god forbid we do something other than fangirl over how hot Actor X is).

(Anonymous) 2009-02-07 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
that's just self-righteous wank.

No, it's pointing out sketchy issues in fandom. Which, as we have all seen illustrated so well, gets people really defensive. As the old commentary went "the personal is political".
ext_28040: (Default)

[identity profile] orbitaldiamonds.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 06:39 am (UTC)(link)
You've proven my point quite well. I'm off to ignore this wank thread now.

It's been, it's been fun, but it's not been real fun. :)

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
No, noooo, don't you know that anything that makes people go "LA LA I DON'T WANNA HEAR IT" is automatically wank, no matter how it's conducted?

(Anonymous) 2009-02-07 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
No, it's pointing out sketchy issues in fandom.

Thank God someone is finally dealing with the ISSUES!

[identity profile] hector-rashbaum.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
Hi, I think I love you <3

[identity profile] likespring.livejournal.com 2009-02-07 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw, I ♥ you too!
nenya_kanadka: thin elegant black cartoon cat ([politics] Michelle Obama/Jill Biden)

[personal profile] nenya_kanadka 2009-02-08 06:39 am (UTC)(link)
This. Especially this:

Or maybe "she's not really a lesbian, she just hasn't found the right man yet"? No one seriously says that to straight people. No one is shipping straight people off to camps or therapy to turn them gay. But people do try to turn gay people straight in real life, and for some people doing the same thing in fanfiction hits a little bit too close to home.

That's probably the shortest summary I can do of why this bothers me. It's because in RL there are people who would tell Rachel that she needs to not be gay and she's wrong to be who she is--in fact there's more or less an entire cottage industry dedicated to telling lesbians that. Whereas nobody's going around seriously saying that straight men or women are bad for being straight. Fandom's a place we can go to escape, but if the escape looks so much like the bad parts of the real world, well...that's kind of hard to deal with.

(I don't say no one should EVER write Keith/Rachel. It can work. But if the majority of Rachel fic is het, that bothers me. C'mon, slash her with Tina Fey or something! *fans self*)