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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-07-08 05:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #5298 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5298 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-07-09 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
I assume both the people who really love this trope and the people who really hate it are comprised largely of people who never felt able to express themselves emotionally and be taken care of as children/teens

Oh my god it's shitty writing, not some sign that those of us that hate it have ~childhood trauma. Christ.

(Anonymous) 2021-07-09 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Um, ayrt didn't say anything about childhood trauma. A less than perfect childhood does not automatically equal childhood trauma calm down. Interesting that you jump immediately overt defensiveness though. God forbid we ever dare to theorize about why we feel what we feel. *eyeroll*

(Anonymous) 2021-07-09 03:33 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt

If you feel like you were never taken care of as a kid/teen, it's not unreasonable to suggest there was likely neglect, abuse or absence on the part of the parent, which I'm pretty sure qualifies as trauma.