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fandomsecrets2021-09-19 04:00 pm
[ SECRET POST #5371 ]
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Re: Vent
(Anonymous) 2021-09-20 12:44 am (UTC)(link)"you can very easily say no. they're not snatching the food from your mouth"
Hmm... well, here's the thing. Not everyone is brought up to believe they are allowed to set boundaries, or that they aren't responsible for someone else's inability to act, so I would not assume that someone "can very easily say no."
OP is venting. They are resentful of something. Perhaps you should let them vent.
Re: Vent
(Anonymous) 2021-09-20 01:48 am (UTC)(link)This is bullshit. Nobody is so isolated that they're unaware that the ability to say no exists, and the fact that other people routinely do so. Everyone knows they can say no, and if it's harder for them because of their upbringing, I get it because I'm in the same boat, but I can still do it.
Re: Vent
(Anonymous) 2021-09-20 03:46 am (UTC)(link)So yes, passing on a meal and then asking for someone else's is entitled and taking advantage of their manners and good nature.
Re: Vent
(Anonymous) 2021-09-20 05:07 am (UTC)(link)Nobody said that saying no is impossible to do. They just said it isn't easy. I trust you know the difference.