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Re: Normal Venting thread
(Anonymous) 2021-09-20 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)So I live alone while the rest of my immediate family lives together in one house. Everyone is at least thirty, so there's no kids/teens involved here. Anyway, last month my brother texts me out of the blue with he's looking to get a place and move out by November. My sister is changing careers and moving. My mom is retiring and moving.
Which. Okay.
But the only one that's told me anything is my brother. He's included me in his apartment search. We've looked at furniture together. It's been fun and he's excited but nervous too since he's never lived by himself before.
My sister just says 'yeah, we're really busy, we're not leaving you out I swear, love you' and my mom hasn't said ANYTHING about ANY of this.
I've mostly put together what's going on with them using context clues from my brother. I literally only found out my mom's retiring tonight. No one thought to tell me until my sister got mad at me for a) not knowing and b) not having started to plan a going away party for her.
And I'm just... I'm so tired. If you've got news, shouldn't you share it? If you're moving, maybe tell me? If you're retiring, isn't it on you to mention it? I don't live at home, so I don't know what's going on with everyone there unless you tell me. But whenever I tell them that, it gets twisted around to being my fault for not knowing.
I'm just. I don't know what they want from me. I'm tired and sad and feeling incredibly unloved and unwanted right now.
Re: Normal Venting thread
*hugs*
I'm glad your brother is including you. Maybe tell him that you didn't know about any of this news from your mom and sis and could he, please, keep you updated?
Maybe if he says something they'll get a clue. And no matter how your sister or anyone twists it, it's not your fault for not being able to read minds. That's just...incredibly rude and mean.
Re: Normal Venting thread
(Anonymous) 2021-09-21 02:38 am (UTC)(link)