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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-10-30 03:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #5412 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5412 ⌋

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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2021-10-30 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I keep thinking I should make some to help out too, but...

1: I got some really nasty comments (like the "I hope you die" kind) on the last one I submitted, including from people who were signed in and whom I had had positive interactions with in the past, and although it was partly my own fault for phrasing things poorly in the secret (I suck at communicating AND there was context I hadn't mentioned), it was... kind of intimidating.
2: These days I'm really only in one fandom and no one else here is in it as far as I know - and since there is hardly any fandom left for it at all, there's not much to have opinions about, hahah.
3: I dunno, I've reached a point in my life where I don't give a crap about keeping secrets. I have so much more to stress about than what people think of my opinions about something like fictional characters or fannish activities. So I keep thinking of making a secret and then going "Nah, I'll just say it openly."

(Anonymous) 2021-10-30 10:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I got some really nasty comments (like the "I hope you die" kind)

D: I'm so sorry. I hope you're OK.
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[personal profile] pantswarrior 2021-10-30 10:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks - and yeah I'm fine. It was like 8-9 years ago I think, given the screenshot I used as a background and when I was into that fandom (and still having the fandom-related issue with a person with whom I have since made peace).

Just, you know, I took some time away, and though I started commenting on posts again last year, it took me forever to post logged in again, and still haven't had the nerve to submit secrets, lest I inadvertently say something that comes off as far more awful/judgy/whatever than I intended. I just am very bad at choosing words, I think.