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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-12-11 03:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #5454 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5454 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2021-12-11 10:09 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who hasn't had a pet since I was 10 and is kinda scared of dogs and actually has ailurophobia... 100% AGREED.

There's a reason kids torturing animals is shown in movies/tv so much as a sign of the person growing up to be a psychopath, it's based in reality. But for some reason adults doing it for fun to their own pets is funny and acceptable just because they're not visibly physically harming the animal? NOPE.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-11 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
on the note of tv shows portraying that as a trait of being a psychopath (because it is one) i remember a show called the unusuals treating the fact that one of the people they were perusing was stalking and murdering people's pet cats as a big joke, which always bothered me because is that not one of the first traits of someone being a psychopath? is that not step one to becoming a serial killer??? MAKE IT MAKE SENSE.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-11 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Animal harm, extended bedwetting and pyromania are the big three in kids, yes.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
...extended bedwetting?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 04:34 am (UTC)(link)
That means that it's normal for little kids who are being or have recently been toilet trained to wet the bed, but if it keeps going after what's normal, something's seriously wrong.

(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
The bedwetting has been theorized as being more of an indicator of childhood abuse or neglect than violent tendencies.

da

(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
I can see a history of abuse correlating with violent tendencies but certainly not in all cases. Plenty of abuse victims never grow up violent and I'm sure some violent psychopaths probably came from decent families who never abused them.

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(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
DA - So, the bedwetting thing is an indication that there's something not right with a child, but in and of itself it's not an indicator of a specific problem. Hell, there are a decent number of physical explanations that would need to be ruled out first. The red flag goes up when bedwetting is present in combination with the other symptoms.

SA

(Anonymous) 2021-12-12 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
it was an adult in this case but it still really bothered me that no one was taking it seriously.