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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-01-13 05:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #5487 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5487 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.
[Council Wars]



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02.
[Encanto]


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03.
[Diminish]


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04.
[Shadow and Bone]


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05.
[The Foxhole Court]


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06.
[Graham Norton]


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07.
[It's A Wonderful Life]











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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 01:35 am (UTC)(link)
Why would anyone else want someone to "take care of" them anyway?

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 02:16 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
I'd actually prefer it at this point in time if I could get the type of man I wanted. But I can't. So I'd rather be alone and glad.

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 02:31 am (UTC)(link)
“I’ll take care of you… in Hell”

Good wedding vows or best wedding vows?

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Doesn't everybody want that? Sometimes?

Without the whole misogyny and burning in Hell part, I mean.

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed.

I didn't date or seek out life partners until I was 30, and wanting other peoole to care for (and to take care of me, when I end up needing it) was the main motivator to get my ass moving on that. World's scary, man.

(Anonymous) 2022-01-14 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
sometimes, sure, but when it's in a "husband taking care of a wife" context it almost always involves infantilizing the woman. my grandmother used to work at a bank and she said they were always getting older women whose husbands had died coming in asking for help writing checks/managing the bank account because their husbands had always done all of that for them so they'd never learned how to do anything by themselves.
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[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2022-01-14 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
Humans are very historically, maybe even instinctually, social creatures.