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case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2022-01-21 04:58 pm
[ SECRET POST #5495 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5495 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Cobra Kai]
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[The City & The City by China Miéville]
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[Stassi Schroeder from Vanderpump Rules]
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[Venture Bros]
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07. [WARNING for discussion of dubcon/underage]

Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #786.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-21 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
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(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 03:34 am (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 04:41 am (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
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(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)I can't tell if you're trolling, or are reading the wrong post, or if you sincerely believe that "you need to work on your reading comprehension" and "you make yourself look like an idiot" aren't things an asshole would say in response to a post where the commenter was doing nothing to warrant it.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-23 10:41 am (UTC)(link)And AYRT is saying the “if everyone you meet is an asshole, you’re the asshole” at them because they said every comment they post is constantly getting personal attacks thrown at them(I’m pretty sure that’s what they meant, even though they actually said every comment they post is a personal attack?). That’s very suspicious that everyone else is always being rude to them for no reason, almost like they’re not sharing something about it what they’re actually posting. So the asshole saying is completely applicable. I have no idea why you’re coming in with the “I don’t know if you’re reading the wrong post”, because AYRT’s response makes perfect sense.
I also don’t know how you can possibly think AYRT is trolling either. Maybe don’t throw the troll accusations without rhyme or reason, because that’s troll behavior too. And it’s fine if you think "you need to work on your reading comprehension" and "you make yourself look like an idiot" are unnecessarily rude. But you’re conveniently ignoring how the “joyless cunt” response is way worse and more inflammatory.
And “things an asshole would say in response to a post where the commenter was doing nothing to warrant it.”? As AYRT explained, the commenter did do something to warrant it, or at least warrant a response in a similar vein. I do think the response could have done without the insult, and the reading comprehension remark, sure. But that bit from AoU meaning Natasha is calling herself a monster because she can’t give birth has been debunked for years now, and is only brought up by ignorant people, or people looking to dig up old wank. So there’s reason to try to nip it in the bud just in case it’s the latter, because everyone’s sick of that wank that’s been around for over 5 years. But if that anon was truly ignorant of it being debunked, then personal attacks aren’t helpful. I’m not disagreeing with that.
TL;DR, that post might not have been the best, but it’s understandable in a way. The anon and the posts by them that you’re defending are way worse though.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 12:14 pm (UTC)(link)Adding onto the anon above me, if anyone is being petty and pissing all over things, it’s you. Your response does not fit the comment you were responding to at all. In tone or intensity, not to mention vulgarity and insult wise.
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(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-23 08:35 am (UTC)(link)Do I wish people could talk in this comm without constant personal attacks and passive aggressive behavior? Definitely. I just had a terrible interaction with a user who decided to be an asshole for no reason based on the most innocuous comment, and it was stupid and frustrating. And they weren’t the first. They won’t be the last. And that sucks. It sucks that you can never predict when anything you say will be met with derision here, for no real reason.
But sometimes, it is warranted. Age of Ultron wank kind of warrants derision. And you were the one who decided to act like an asshole for no reason in this case. If you run into people acting derisive with every comment you make, literally every one like you implied, then the anon above me is right: If everyone is an asshole, you’re probably the real asshole.
Also, not a be a spelling fascist, but it’s “clique” not “click”, in the context you’re using it. I’m not correcting you for any reason other than so you can be aware in the future. That doesn’t mean I’m not prepared for you to take it the wrong way regardless.
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 02:29 pm (UTC)(link)(you said something wrong maybe due to ignorance, but jesus, the replies. you're right at being pissed)
Re: Secrets you don't want to make...
(Anonymous) 2022-01-22 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)In the comics it's more... complicated. She seems 100% ok with not having kids because of the *lifestyle* of being an ageless super-spy but also her most recent story line involves her getting brainwashed into having a family and she's like "FUCK this isn't the life I want but also I can't just turn off this love." So she tries to keep them safe after returning to superheroing. Yelena is also pretty cool with he not having kids thing. Sharon Carter was pretty into the I Don't Want To Be A Wife And Mother Because Super Spy but you know that could all change with one writer.