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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-03-08 06:05 pm

[ SECRET POST #5541 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5541 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-03-09 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not asexual at all, and have a raging sex drive, and I'd still rather not hear about what people want to do to actors/performers. I have actors/musicians I would personally LOVE to sex up and that I fantasize about, but man, TMI.

I don't like y/n fic either (the you+celebrity stuff). Or my friends telling me details of their sex lives. Like maybe your boyfriend's dick is TMI.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-09 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Totally fair!

I think the feeling of "I can't join in/I'm not equipped to join in" and the feeling of "I don't want to join in" are somewhat different (and of course someone can totally feel both at the same time, as well)! But I definitely agree that not wanting to talk about one's own personal fantasies, or hear about other people's personal fantasies is definitely not an ace thing, just a preference thing. Plenty of ace people are fine with hearing about that stuff and plenty of allo people definitely don't want to share that stuff.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-09 02:59 am (UTC)(link)
Is this, like, actually a thing people do in some fandoms? Because I've never seen it in any of mine, just stuff of people shipping the characters with each other or the occasional you/character thing.

(Anonymous) 2022-03-09 01:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Honestly, same (for the most part). I just have no interest in hearing about other people's sex lives or what they want to do. I mean, if you're getting some, I'm happy for you! But unless I'm involved, I don't think it's any of my business.

It's weird though. Once in a while I will enjoy reading/writing about a pairing... but it has to be the right pairing written well for it to hit the spot.