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TMI!!!!!!!!!!!!

Had to get a pap smear today. Why do they always insist on starting with the bigger size? Is there an actual reason? Cuz the doc tried with the bigger one, couldn't get it in cuz I was too tense (wonder why). So she moved to the smaller one and I was good to go. Also, is the whole process extremely painful for anyone else? Maybe it is because I'm not sexually active?

I still can't do pap smears. I can't even insert a tampon or a finger without pain and clenching. The only time I've ever been able to do them is during surgery when I'm unconscious.

Ugh, I'm due for a pap smear and I really don't wanna get one. I know it's important, but I also find the whole process very painful. My doctor always uses the smallest size though. The first time I had to get one, I kinda went overboard telling her how nervous I was because I'd never been sexually active and I'm still not, so maybe that's why?

I need one but I too experience far more pain than I am comfortable with.

I screamed at my last one
after I fucking told the guy that vaginal sex was painful for me
and he was like yeah you have a narrow birth canal
so why.......

I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds it painful. Honestly I can't do it. Never had vaginal sex because I know I wouldn't be able to. Can't even do vaginal exams, much less a pap smear. There are therapy things I've been told to try, but I can't afford them right now.

I'm not sexually active and it's never been extremely painful for me? Uncomfortable, sure, but never for more than a moment or two at the most, and it's only the scraping part that is really unpleasant.

Same, I'm kind of shocked by the amount of people who experience extreme pain here. I've been to two different gynos and neither did anything that hurt me, the scraping just feels like a bit of period pain.

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When i got pap smears i was sexually active, and while not like...intensely painful, there was still pain and discomfort. The taking of the sample itself always hurt (cervix is sensitive!!), and the one time, ONE TIME i had a male GYN, it hurt like fuck. Plus he was an asshat.

I'm glad to never have to do that shite again. I dunno how often anyone has to, anymore - i know the guidelines have changed.

Ugh, I feel you on this. I've gotten one only once so far and I know I should schedule another one soon but I need to find a new doctor because the last time was so bad. I'm a short, small-framed person and the gyno used the bigger size, I immediately started getting tense and pulling away and he snapped at me to stop curling up before finally sighing and going for the smaller one. It made me so upset.

Sounds like the smaller one is often in a different room or in a bottom drawer and the asshole was just too lazy to go and get it. Typical. Probably why they always go for the bigger one first: it's nearby.

They're always painful for me. I've asked multiple doctors for a numbing agent and all of them have told me they didn't want to waste the time. Thanks.... Not only do I have a very narrow cervix, but it's also pointed backwards. I don't think I will be having anymore. I had a small cancer scare because I had a 6 month bleeding session, and it was way too painful to get a pap smear, much less do a biopsy in the clinic, so I ended up going under and had them put a iud in while they were getting the biopsy. Tests came back neg for cancer and for all the HPV. So I'll take the risk; the pain isn't worth it.

I'm honestly impressed you were able to do it even with that much pain. I've never been able to do one (except when out from anesthesia). My body won't even let anything be inserted, it is just too painful.

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My doctor once put in a smaller size plastic speculum and it popped out of my cooch onto the floor.
I will be performing next week in Bangkok with golf balls. See you there!

I've never had a pap, because I'm an ace virgin, and both doctors I've asked have recommended against it.

However, I was recently sent a pamphlet in the mail saying "It looks like you're in your thirties and you've never had a gynecological exam! We are going to send you an at-home cervix screening kit that you can do yourself and send in!"

Fucking yes, okay, let's go!

It's not a pap test, obv. It just screens for high-risk HPV types and then if the test is positive for those, I may need to have a pap, but if I'm not positive for those, I just do another HPV test in several years. Works for me!

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They were extremely painful for me for a long time - I couldn’t even do the small speculum. It took lucking into a gynecologist who really took me at face value wrt the amount of pain and supported starting me off with basic at-home pt exercises as well as recommending seeing a pelvic floor specialist. Luckily as well the first specialist I saw was very helpful in getting to a point where the smaller spec didn’t hurt, and the latest GP to give me an exam asked about size beforehand, too.

But the GPs and gynos before then absolutely did not get it; even ones who really felt sympathetic or tried to talk me through each step before they did it ended up seeming at best confused by how badly I reacted to any size.

I've only gotten one once and it hurt. Not as bad as I feared but I recall a lot of discomfort. T_T I'm not sexually active either.

I had a fear of anything going in my vagina for decades after the doctor used an adult speculum when I was a teen. And I was a virgin too, so it hurt like hell. This fear was so bad that I refused to use tampons, and used pads instead(and I still do now in my last years of menstruation, out of habit). Not to mention I was terrified of penetrative sex, of course, for quite a long time. So I avoided any kind of vaginal exam and pap smear until I couldn’t avoid them anymore. And I’m not very sexually active, so it always hurts, or at least feels extremely uncomfortable.

I let the dishes sit for so many days in the sink that they accumulated slime... -_-;

gonna have sex tonight :)

Have fun, nonny!

I went off my birth control for the first time in over a decade. I was really hoping my sex drive would improve a little; in fact that's the main reason I went off it in the first place. My sex drive was slightly higher before I went on it, and has been very, very low since, and I'd honestly just like to feel horny from time to time.

But I've been off it for almost a full month now, and my sex drive is still at 1/10 like usual. Boo.

For about two weeks my nipples were really sensitive, which was fascinating to me because I've never had sensitive nipples before. Like, I've never really understood what people were feeling with nipple play and sucking and pinching and stuff. For me it's about like pinching my earlobes, lol. But for a couple of weeks it was like oh! Is this what sensitive nipples feel like?! I kind of liked it, honestly. However, the sensitivity is gone now. Boo once again.

On the bright side, my adult acne has been extremely minor so far, and I kind of thought it would hit me like crazy, since that was why I went on the BC in the first place.

I'm pretty sure the sex drive and the acne go hand in hand for me. If the sex drive comes back, the acne will come with it. FML.

I'd like to get rid of my sex drive. All it does is cause me problems.

if it helps, the after effects of the pill can still be present for up to 6 months after stopping taking it. So, your sex drive might come back soon

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