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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-05-07 04:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #5601 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5601 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a theory some people who promote that whole "consent is sexy" thing and can't shut up about how harmful and regressive dub/noncon is, actually have a kink for consent talk and don't realize it.
(I personally find consent alright but I absolutely loathe it when characters are written to ask permission every step of the way.)

(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
As the confused commenter above you, thanks for this.

(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 10:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I think the majority of the people who can't shut up about how harmful and regressive dub/noncon is actually just believe dub/noncon is harmful and regressive. HOWEVER, I do agree with you in thinking that a lot of people who go hard on the consent talk and repeated consent check-ins probably find it really hot and that's a big part of why they push so hard for it.

(Anonymous) 2022-05-07 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't see a link here. They do not promote talking, they promote stopping when one says No and also tagging. At least those that I've seen.

The consent talk happens mostly in fluffy fics with emphasized carring. It's guaranteed that character A will fall asleep and character B will carry them to bed and tuck them in these consent talk fics.

(Anonymous) 2022-05-08 01:38 am (UTC)(link)
How about let's just say everyone who talks about anything I don't care about for longer than I want them to has a kink for that thing and doesn't realize it. I just realized I have a kink for messy rooms because my room is messy and every weekend when people ask me what I plan to do, I say "Well, I should really clean my room, but..." Thank you for opening my eyes.

(Anonymous) 2022-05-08 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
There's a difference between characters establishing consent and the PSA monologues some people insert into their pornfic poorly disguised as dialogue. One is not like the other lol.

(Anonymous) 2022-05-08 10:42 am (UTC)(link)
It’s still not automatically a fetish just because characters talk about consent longer than you want them to, even if it seems PSA like to you.