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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-06-11 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #5636 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5636 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Met Gala]


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[Mr Ballen on Youtube]


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[Satoru Gojo from Jujutsu Kaisen]


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[Twisted Kaiju Theater]


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(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
You used a lot of homophobic talking points, are surprised people got mad at your internalized homophobia, and now are defending yourself MORE. People spent LITERAL HOURS telling you the same thing, over and over and over, you essentially shat all over people's identities because it's not what YOU think counts as a lesbian relationship, etc. You essentially implied that nonbinary lesbians don't exist, or that butch lesbians with femme lesbians "don't count" (YOUR OWN WORDS were that it "made you sad" because it's not what YOU think counts as a lesbian relationship), etc.

Yeah. People were mad. Quit throwing a bitch fit because you got correctly called out on digging in deeper on your internalized homophobia. Because at some point, being ESL doesn't become an excuse. You weren't polite, you were condescending, just like you are here, and you threw and are throwing yourself a goddamn pity party. Examine yourself and why you hate butch lesbians so much that you find their relationships heteronormative, why you think they don't count as lesbian relationships apparently, etc.

(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 01:51 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Not going to comment on the other stuff, but seriously
>>> [being ESL doesn't become an excuse]
FUCKING THIS.

I'm ESL myself (English is actually my third language so ETL?) and when there is a misunderstanding because of my poor writing/speaking skill I just apologize, lower my head, and try to explain myself better to the best of my capability.
More humility would do you good, OP. That is actually how you LEARN.

As a side note: I do believe that F!S has good portion of ESL people and it's seldom used as an excuse during heated discourses

(Anonymous) 2022-06-12 04:39 pm (UTC)(link)
da
I use it as an excuse for SPAG. Unclear wording is all me, not a byproduct of me being ESL.