[ SECRET POST #5650 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5650 ⌋

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Re: What did you realize in your 30’s?

[sparklywalls]

Sort of related to the secret I guess! Everyone complains that "nobody makes the effort, they're all too busy with their own lives!" like they're the only one making the effort but...nobody is making more effort than anyone else. Overall I mean. I know there are exceptional people who really suck but I promise you that the vast majority of us don't realise how much shit is going to be pulling you in all directions once you lose the shared venues of your early adulthood such as education. And yes, we're all busy. And exhausted. More of us are scattered geographically than ever before. Though having said that, sometimes I feel like it's a struggle to see my friends in the SAME city as much as it's a struggle to see the ones all over the world.

But on the other hand when you do manage to have a get together with friends, the really good ones, the actual friends, don't care how long it has been. You just slot back into it like you last saw each other yesterday. I think my 30s have taught me a lot more empathy for the fact I'm not and (general) you are not the main character in the lives of others.