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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-07-23 03:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #5678 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5678 ⌋

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Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Everyone says that the secret to beauty is confidence. I really wish that were true. I've been comfortable in my own skin for a few years now, no longer plagued by my facial flaws or not-flat belly.

That was until I discovered my OH was cheating on me. The other woman is very pretty and thin. And now I'm consumed with the most intense self-loathing.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 06:33 am (UTC)(link)
Anon, the cheating is on them. You could be as pretty and thin as anyone could imagine and your OH would still cheat on you. This isn't about your looks or your personality or your financial situation or anything else you could come up with.

It's about your OH being a cheater. That's their character flaw, and your OH could be in a relationship with anyone in the world - including the very pretty and thin woman he's cheating with now - and they would still cheat eventually.

Don't blame yourself for your OH's character flaws. You can't change them - only they can.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 07:11 am (UTC)(link)
Them cheating has nothing to do with your beauty. They're garbage who don't deserve you're attention in the first place. Technically your self-loathing began with their betrayal and then a lack of confidence as a natural result. It's them who are at fault, not you. You haven't lost anything, they lost you.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
nah, looks isn't the reason. And if so - good for you. A least you know that s/he'll run away at the first opportunity.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 04:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Cheaters are gonna cheat. They'll cheat on her, too.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup, most likely. OP, your partner's an idiot if he's cheating for looks, because one day she will not be what he was initially attracted to.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-07-24 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Hugh Grant cheated on Elizabeth Hurley at her peak attractiveness (which, to be clear, was smoking hot). Cheaters gonna cheat.

Re: Non-fandom secret thread

(Anonymous) 2022-08-27 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been confident- and haven't gotten any man that I wanted.
Confidence doesn't work.