[ SECRET POST #5698 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5698 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[linked for porn? The 120 Days of Sodom]


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08. [WARNING for discussion of rape]

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Re: Hoarding

[(Anonymous)]

+1

I think I may have some hoarder tendencies, but I know most of it is me being lazy (lack of follow through, just put something AWAY!) And it's a way to self sabotage, but for a while I had (and still have) trouble letting go of things. Material possessions that either have sentimental value (I feel like I'm letting down the person who gave it to me) or I feel bad that I haven't used it "yet" or for a while. What's been helpful is taking pictures of things (arguably more hoarding, but at least it's digital and not piling up in my home) that have value to me before letting it go (Once took a picture of beat up sneakers, for context). I'm also fortunate enough to have a friend who's holding me accountable to my mess (my weekend plans involve cleaning the fuck out of my room) -- she's gonna check in on my progress, and she helps me sort through the things in a very non sentimental way. So I hope you can find a person to help you (or even a reddit group or some online community). I used to check out the unfuck my habitat Tumblr and bow I'm watching the people who clean up hoarder homes (I think Auri) was her name.

Also, it's going to take time so please be patient with yourself. And it can feel shameful (how did I let it get this way? No one can see this! I can't move on to better things because of this mess, etc.), But you can do it. One piece at a time. Even if it's something small. You can start with one section of one area. Say the bathroom. Do you have any paper or things that need to be thrown out? Can you see the floor? Start with that. Throw out the things you know are trash (papers, ads, receipts, toilet paper wrappers whatever). If that's all you can do that day, well that's a start OP.
I'm wishing you the best on this journey and hope to hear about your progress (ups AND downs -- I was supposed to start cleaning yesterday. All I managed was watering my plants. And that was all for that day. Was I disappointed for not doing more? Yes. But was I glad I at least started? Yes .). You're capable of getting this done, OP. I know you can, even if it takes time! Just an internet random, but I'm cheering for you.