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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-09-09 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #5726 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5726 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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02. https://i.imgur.com/XNRVKS8.png
[OP marked NSFW]


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03. https://i.imgur.com/hIlZV9G.jpg
[OP warned for clowns]


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04. [SPOILERS for Xenoblade Chronicles 3]




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05. [SPOILERS for Arknights: Rhodes Island's Records of Originium]




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06. [SPOILERS for Final Fantasy XIV: Endwalker]




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07. [SPOILERS for She-Hulk]




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08. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]

[The Mortuary Assistant]


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09. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]




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10. [WARNING for discussion of dubcon/underage]




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11. [WARNING for discussion of suicide]




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12. [WARNING for discussion of ableism]




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13. [WARNING for discussion of sexual violence]

(Judge Dredd)
















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #819.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2022-09-10 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
1) You're allowed to have the type of friendships you want. Sometimes those friendships are non-intimate ones (which makes sense on the internet for fandom). You can also make say a kind version of that upfront when people try to develoe something deeper.

To be clear, are you also not giving intimate information about yourself, yes? If you're going on about your problems and then not letting people go on about theirs, I don't think you want friendship at all.

2) You'll never know the density of diag/self-diag "incorrectly"/self-diag "correctly"/scammers. And frankly, it has zero to do with whether people hold other accountable or not. Accountability is for behavior, which is irrelevant to diagnosis, and which can enforced regardless of whether people feel like they can control their behavior or not.

3) What weight would you have to take up in a fandom context? As above, even in fandom projects, you can set standards, boundaries, expectations, exit plans and then enforce them.

4) Here's the thing, people actually develop coping mechanisms for maladaptive psychology naturally. Sometimes people can't or their coping mechanisms are worse than their psychological issues, and they have trouble surviving. Some people just develop coping mechanisms that don't interfere with the capitalistic "productive" parts of their lives, but still might have maladaptive issues with parts of their life society finds less important. None of this means you are coping well overall. I genuinely hope you don't have any issues OP, but therapy if you can afford it is a nice way to make sure!! Or else complain about what's annoying you about people and get useful ways of handling that!!