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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-11-06 03:24 pm

[ SECRET POST #5784 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5784 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-11-06 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
If he did cheat, that’s not good. I don’t think saying cheating is bad is controversial. But why on earth is that something that you should lose your job over? Why would anyone want someone to? It’s a matter of your personal life, not the business of your employers or uninvolved random people. It’s up to his wife how she wants to proceed, and if she doesn’t want to divorce him, then that’s that. I don’t know why it should matter to anyone else. Especially not to the level of calling for him to lose his job.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-06 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
100% agreed.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-06 09:46 pm (UTC)(link)
It's stupid, yes, but it's a form of stupidity that seems closely linked to the concept of "idols" as a distinct category

(Anonymous) 2022-11-07 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I think it's something that should be handled between the people involved. If the wife is willing to forgive (or may even not be bothered, we don't know the exact details), then I don't see how it's anyone else's place to judge.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-07 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
Co-signed. Well said.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-07 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
+1000000

(Anonymous) 2022-11-07 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, what people mess up in their personal life should have no effect on their career (unless what they do is either actually criminal in nature or directly would negatively affect their profession, like a surgeon having a major drug issue or something.)

(Anonymous) 2022-11-08 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
I could see cheating affecting someone's career if it was something like having an affair with another company employee, especially if it was something like supervisor/subordinate, because then that raises all sorts of questions about power dynamics and whether the person in the lower position felt pressured into it/was trying to use it as a way to get ahead in the company, things like that. But other than that? I don't think it's anyone's business except the two people in the relationship.