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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2022-11-19 04:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #5797 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5797 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2022-11-20 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
Ehhh... 'just don't watch it' is fine for like... single people who can choose not to go out with friends to see a movie they don't like. And it's a healthy approach to just choose not to watch things you know you won't like! But people with families spend a LOT of time watching media they wouldn't choose to. Maybe your spouse is a huge fan and you don't want to complain to them so you watch the new marvel movie when it's their turn to pick the film, then you take to whatever social media they're not on so you can vent your feelings without harshing their vibe, and then you get over it because you know they'll watch a movie for you next time even if it's not their thing and sometimes you just need to complain once to get it out of your system. Or your kids are super into the MCU and you're way over it, but if all three kids can agree on a movie you hate, at least they aren't fighting.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-20 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I think all of this is right on.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-20 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you have to watch the movie, though? If my housemates are going to watch something that doesn't really interest me, I just tell them no thanks and go do something else. Likewise, if one of them doesn't want to watch something the rest of us do, they're free to skip movie night too. No one gets offended if one of us says "nah that's really not my thing."

I don't understand this concept of forcing someone to watch something they're not interested in.

(Anonymous) 2022-11-20 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
Dunno. Probably you can't get out of it if you are taking your kids to the movies. Even though I think Marvel things are PG-13 and I think you totally can do anything else while your teenagers watch. But every other case you just don't watch it. Your spouse watches? You go read a book or something. Or go with your friends out. Your friends going to the movies? You can go with them to have food later.

Yes, sometimes it's isolating and it's easier to agree to watch. But it's still possible if you are not a doormat you really don't like them.
Yes, I ended up watching movies I am not really into for other people in my life. But it's not a one movie, also it's your life stop torturing yourself for others it's not healthy.