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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 03:58 am (UTC)(link)Screaming at them doesn't work, either, I agree. I feel they just shouldn't be engaged with at all, and I hate the ~we shouldn't cancel them~ bullshit. First, grow the fuck up with the "canceling" crap. People are not "canceled", it's called facing consequences for your actions, and no one is owed a platform to spout hate speech.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 05:00 am (UTC)(link)100% agree!
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 05:18 am (UTC)(link)"Hate speech," at one point, had a meaning that most people could agree with. It meant that telling other people they should go out and do bodily harm to [hated minority] was illegal and a punishable offense. The more broadly the term is applied and the further it gets from that meaning, the more ordinary people wind up siding with conservative wingnuts. You can't legislate anyone into civility. You can't impress them with punishments into thinking your side has the right idea. About anything. And when you (general you) try, they often decide you have more power over their lives than they want you to have.
Conservative dogmatists alienate and lose people in this exact, same way, when they pull rank and claim that everyone HAS to believe in the bible. Why? Because.
But a lot of liberals do, too. And it's a big problem, because the issues that people feel like saying "because. No questions allowed!" about are near and dear to their hearts. So, you get the strongest emotion paired with the least convincing argument. "I would force you to think what I think if that were possible, but if I can't, coercing you to TALK and ACT like you believe it anywhere other people could hear you is good enough" is a disaster waiting to happen. And it creates a very personal conflict over what was previously an ideological disagreement.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 05:30 am (UTC)(link)"I would force you to think what I think if that were possible, but if I can't, coercing you to TALK and ACT like you believe it anywhere other people could hear you is good enough"
No one is saying that, but violence against minority groups has been rising exponentially ever since white supremacists and anti-Semites and other bigots of various stripes were given tacit support by a fucking president of the United States and a platform by his supporters in rightwing traditional and social media.
Your slippery slope argument is bullshit.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:18 pm (UTC)(link)Politicians who say awful things about gay people (or Jews, or blacks, or women who get abortions, or insert so many scapegoat groups here) are being propped up by piles of less influential people who believe those things. The problem isn't that we can't duct-tape their mouths shut, the problem is that the billionaires of this world sleep better at night when they know that the increasingly stressed out and fucked over wage-dependent people that vastly outnumber them are aiming their rage at each other.
That second group - people whose only legal contribution to politics is voting - already feels keenly that they have too little power, and they lash out hard at the idea of people they disagree with being able to dictate how to live to them. (On top of all the other stuff they don't want and don't know how to say "no" to.) And politicians and the media cynically manipulate that, encouraging discord and deepening divisions.
You may be under the impression that no one is saying "talk like you agree with me, or be dressed-down, kicked out of any public space, and erased as if you never were," but that's exactly how threatening normal people's media accounts looks to anyone who isn't already sold on the idea that the expanded definitions of "hate speech" are reasonable. Or convinced that subsequent, future definitions of "what should not be said" will be fair.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)Thanks. I saw your reply and appreciated it.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 09:28 am (UTC)(link)This needs to be pointed out to just about everyone on every side but especially the left - which was previously my spiritual home.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)I don't think you have a right to passive-aggressively talk down to strangers. The insults do not make your argument any stronger. They just make you seem vindictive.
And, because I can anticipate the likely reply, "tone policing is always completely invalid!" is an accepted belief in a rarefied in-group. Outside that space, it has been widely rejected. So, when you go for the throat of any person disagreeing with you, because you think your cause is so noble that anyone else around will understand and sympathize, chances are, they don't. They're seeing someone with a lack of emotional discipline. Someone they will avoid if they can, in the future, as opposed to sharing their thoughts with or asking you what you think.
And as long as the left just digs into "no, they're not! Or if they are, that's because they're idiots! Because all of this is totally right!!" We keep having a people-don't-want-to-hear-from-us problem. That we made.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-04 05:41 am (UTC)(link)I legit clapped after I read this. Thank you!
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-03 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)Ah, I'm sorry, and I empathize.
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