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What are you loving today and what are you hating?
(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 12:18 am (UTC)(link)Hating: I am the only one who is writing saucy fic for this rare pare. Once again I have fallen for a ship with no other available fanworks online and I am left feeding myself if I wish to eat.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 12:26 am (UTC)(link)Hating: my inability to progress/finish my Secret Santa and fic.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 12:29 am (UTC)(link)In a year, when you've forgotten it a little, you can come back and read it and it's like a gift from Past You!
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 12:31 am (UTC)(link)Loving: I bought a pine tree-scented candle because I was missing the Christmases of my childhood but I don't have room for a tree in my apartment, and it's really doing the trick. I was worried it would be too strong, but I've been burning it for like an hour now, and it's not overpowering or gross yet. :)
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Hating: when they get men to play fat women. Like with Hairspray. Don't care that it was tradition from the theater version. That's awful too. Ruins what is otherwise an amazing movie.
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Hating: The fact I couldn't just code the whole thing by myself without asking for someone to do the initial work, and my stomach not letting me actually eat chocolate (or anything else), or go get groceries like I really kind of should by now, or sing. Also discovering that the Rock Band in-game music store is dead, I can't buy more tracks for RB2-3, and now that they finally released some more Muse tracks, you can only buy them in RB4... and I do not have RB4. :/
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Loving: I'm writing fanfic again myself and fairly happy with what I'm producing. (It's all for an exchange so hasn't been put up yet, so I'll have to wait to see if other people like it.)
Hating: I don't seem to be accomplishing anything else, including cooking and cleaning, which is definitely a problem. (I don't mean this is happening because I'm writing. Just that writing is the only thing that my executive dysfunction hasn't killed.)
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Hating: The weird amount of wank that's been going on in the Detroit Become Human fandom lately. Wank was never super bad over here and for the last few years its been really quiet. Now we're seeing a resurgence.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 02:34 am (UTC)(link)Hating: Every TV media franchise thing I try to jump into is so mediocre I bounce off after an episode. I don't have high standards. I want to love the Marvel and ASOIAF and LOTR and Star Wars and DC such but I'm just not feeling it. No I haven't seen Andor, I'm not planning on it. I don't care if that's The Really Good One ok I've heard that line too many times before.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 02:52 am (UTC)(link)Hating: I'm catsitting, which would normally be a great thing, but the vet told my mom to stop giving her snacks, and I'm faithfully obeying, but kitty loves food so much and always begs for it when it's not her meal time and it hurts me to say no to her all day. I'm even less upset about the fact that she woke me up at 5 AM today to ask for food than I am about the fact that I couldn't give her any.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 02:53 am (UTC)(link)Hating: back pain. Also, even during PSN year end sale season the games I want are still pretty expensive. Enjoying JRPGs is no fun.
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 04:38 am (UTC)(link)Hating: I'm behind on the fics I'm writing for a Secret Santa exchange because I hate how it all sounds and I'm worried my giftees will hate them too
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 04:58 am (UTC)(link)Old secrets/comments thread
(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 12:51 am (UTC)(link)Hopefully it’ll get a few more eyes than posting comments on old posts that people rarely check.
[Glad to see the Carpenter Brut commenter and secret poster connected yesterday!]
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 03:21 am (UTC)(link)But it also had me thinking about mysogyny. Not sure where y'all live but here, hitting the gym seems to be the new "cool" for young men. And a man who says "I think you're all gym rats and this crap sucks" not because he's being a pick-me, but simply because he doesn't like it, wouldn't be "Not Like The Other Men" they would be "a man who doesn't like to hit the gym" merely. "Gym rats" could (and would) criticize him and probably throw some moralizing "it's good for health!" words at him - but in the end *it's just his preference* .
My point being: of course we all think our preferences are better. They're our preferences after all. We prefer them, because they're better... TO US. Doesn't mean they are universally better - they are better TO US which is what some people seem to be unable to acknowledge on a deeper level unfortunately.
So when a girl says "it seems to me that a lot of girls like this thing but I don't because ()" I fail to see how/why that should be a bad thing or "NLTOG" in any way. They're reaching out, they're bothering to explain. "A feeling of superiority"... sounds abstract and vague, but of course it would be implicit. It's the thing we like after all, we like it because we think it's good or better. Right?
Again, to me being a NLTOG girl means being a pick-me "look how different from girls (ew) I am" kinda girl. Not in a GNC way, in a tryhard and maybe mysogynistic way.
On a related side note, people were also talking about bullying and how "girls bullied by girls get to see their lives portrayed in fiction and girls bullied by boys largely don't" and my first thought was "disagree?" but then I remembered it's about what you were exposed to. It's true of American media - particularly YA - probably, in which "preps" are "mean girls" and boys would never be rude to young ladies etc. But in shojo manga (and real life ofc) I have seen many girls who are bullied by nearly everyone. (As a young girl who was bullied by nearly everyone, of course that hit home, lol.)
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(Anonymous) 2022-12-15 03:42 am (UTC)(link)I loved Ladbaby at first when they were just getting popular but kinda lost interest and they commercialised more and more. I’ve been so happy to see them succeed though and always root for them for the Christmas number 1 since they started doing that in I think it was 2018. But DTKIC has always been so cringey to me and this is just…ick.
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