[ SECRET POST #5834 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5834 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 28 secrets from Secret Submission Post #835.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

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The thread OP might have been defensive, and were a bit harsh as a result. But they’re still in the right for feeling that way. Because cosplay is a harmless hobby that hurts nobody. Some miserable people just can’t stand to see people have fun in a way that they don’t like. So instead of taking accountability for themselves and their own actions and tailoring their online experience so they never have to see cosplayers, which works, they have to make their miserable mindset everyone else’s problem. OP can hate cosplay all they want. And it’s possible that they ignore cosplayers on their own time instead of being nasty to them. But when you put out such a rude and judgmental secret about an innocuous hobby that brings many people joy, of course people are going to react not so positively. It’s asinine of you to act like it’s the fault of people for not reacting to the secret with complete praise instead of the fault of the secret author for phrasing their secret in such a judgey and negative way, and then sending it out to be read in a public forum where anyone is allowed to react to it however they wanted. At some point, people need to take responsibility for their actions, and the one who would need to do that above all else would be OP. Or they would if they were the ones being up in arms that people reacted to their secret in a natural way. Instead, it’s an overly involved third party who wants to pretend OP has no blame for anything. It’s sad that you’re still here trying to twist reality in a way that somehow favors OP for insulting an entire community of hobbyists. But no, you’re the only one living in that delusional world. And before you say(again) “It’s a secret, those are supposed to be something you wouldn’t say to someone’s face or something that could be shameful”. OP is “saying it to someone’s face” here. They’re insulting cosplayers in full view of a community that has many cosplayers. People are well within their right to react to that negatively.

[(Anonymous)]

And I am well within my rights to react to people using gendered sexist insults because their feelings were hurt negatively.

[(Anonymous)]

I don’t really like that word and would not use it myself, I will admit. That’s what I meant when I said they got harsh.

[(Anonymous)]

So I got harsh back.

[(Anonymous)]

You did, and it’s not you using harsh language to counter harsh language that’s a problem. But you ignored the entirety of what they said, and the good points they had, in order to zero in on their harsh language. As if it invalidated anything they had to say beyond it, when it doesn’t.

[(Anonymous)]

I mean,it kinda does for me. Once you basically just majorly insult people, your points mean very little to me because really, if you're not able to make your point without insults you probably don't have a valid point. And I think they actually don't. They have the right to be angry about people disliking cosplay. They do not have the right to demand praise/recognition/any reaction they want from other people.

[(Anonymous)]

If you're the one who replied to that first angry anon, you realize you're basically admitting that you don't have any valid points either.

[(Anonymous)]

+100

[(Anonymous)]

Ah yes, the old "two wrongs make a right."