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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 12:29 am (UTC)(link)I can only stand it if they're adults and it's consensual (though it can be argued that it isn't REALLY because of the family dynamics.)
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 12:34 am (UTC)(link)Saying that I actually can't do parent/child incest, mine is stricly between siblings because I suppose I can get into that kind of mess but with parent/child I can't? Or at least I haven't yet gotten into a parent/child incest ship.
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I guess...because some 'verses have the siblings in a kind of 'us against the world' scenario, and a good writer can make that flow pretty easily and believably into a more intimate 'ship. And when it's done well, it's just GOOD, with that extra added touch of 'taboo' and 'secret'.
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Also, sometimes the dynamic of a particular ship just works as a romantic ship regardless of if they are relatives. My only major incest ship is a cousin one, but I love the dynamic and would ship them regardless of whether they were related or not. TBH might even ship them if they were brothers. The dynamic is just that good to me.
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 01:19 am (UTC)(link)while a lot of popular sibling ships also squick me, like... okay look, that one coffee commercial? They were going to bang it out, and I can't see it any other way. I guess it's just a question of what the vibe is.
not a useful answer to your question, just the only thing I have to offer.
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 02:23 am (UTC)(link)Another thing I love about taboo ships is the emotional complexity of them. I love that, within the universe of the story, there's no real "solve" for the problem. It's a mess, and there's nothing the characters can do to make it not a mess. No matter how much they genuinely love each other, they can't make their relationship okay by societal standards. And no matter how much it's not okay by societal standards, it doesn't make them not love each other. It just is what it is, and they're left to grapple with that. It's an emotional Rubik's Cube that can never be entirely solved. (I don't think this element is necessarily as prominent in parent/child fics, because the idea of a genuinely loving incestuous parent/child relationship is...you know...not easily sold. But I think it can show up quite a bit in sibling ships, and definitely in the more problematic mentor/mentee ships.)
And then of course there's the fact that many people vibe hard with ships that are intense, pair-bonded, and co-dependent. But there aren't that many canonical ships which really commit to that dynamic. By contrast, canonical sibling relationships tend to be more likely to possess those qualities. So it makes sense, then, that people who vibe hard on that dynamic for their ships end up consuming stories that are giving them their favorite dynamic on a silver platter, with one little hiccup of shared genetics, and they go, Screw it, these bros are gonna fuuuuck.
Plus there's the "Just wanna see two hot people smash, literally do not care about the canonical context" crowd. Can't relate, but good for them.
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 06:47 am (UTC)(link)Some of the most lasting and well known stories are about forbidden romances. Many take form in class differences, and I would say in more modern times queer romances are the most well known form of forbidden romances.
Take in that as a society we progress and start breaking barriers down so that we normalize pairing up despite class differences and normalize queer romances, we generally don't feel a deep sense "forbidden" with those once common tropes.
Not to say we all want to fuck our relatives. And I know people will take that idea and run with it and take it in bad faith.
It's just that thematically speaking for storytelling sake, the feelings of "this is forbidden", it's not as easy as it used to be to just make it about a closest pair of queers anymore. It's easier to understand the "forbidden" element when it's about incest. And again, this is the more "this is for storytelling for my entertainment" side of your brain. It's not a literal interpretation of your desires or interests.
And to get really serious, if this is in line with the way society progresses and we start confronting the darker elements of society that needs correcting/addressing, I would want people to not feed into their most basic discriminatory asshole takes and again just read this off as, "Bunch of weirdos wanting us to accept that fucking your relatives is normal."
No, what I want the discourse to be around is the abuse that happens in families. Incest happens because people sexually abuse their relatives and/or are sexually abused by their relatives.
If you want to truly de-stigmatize incest, we as a society have to come to terms with the abuse in the family home and listen to victims and try to find ways to help them heal. And that means not making jokes about people who have Daddy Issues whether or not they have a Daddy Kink, because it is minimizing not only their pains/abuse but it also goes back into everyone thinking our sex lives are public (similarly to general public thinking a woman or fat person's body is public for all to judge when they're walking around in public).
I honestly didn't think I would think this hard about it, but there you go. My not researched opinions on incest and the role "forbidden romances" play in society.
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 09:34 am (UTC)(link)Why? It's hot but idk why lol. It's forbidden I guess and the emotional fallout is deeply cathartic for me but I have no idea why. I have trauma history but it's nothing to do with incest.
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(Anonymous) 2023-01-18 01:22 pm (UTC)(link)