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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-03-11 02:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #5909 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5909 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Hi-Fi Rush]



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[Everything, Everywhere, All at Once]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 63 secrets from Secret Submission Post #846.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2023-03-11 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Dead-on.

One of the things I really resent about this proselytizing impulse in shipping is that it's killed the fun of listening to people talk about stuff that I don't ship. I used to browse all the ship manifestos I could find in my fandoms, and more informal talk on the same subject, because it all made canon richer and more fun for me. Even that character that I couldn't stand and thought was 100% obnoxious looked completely different through the eyes of someone who shipped them with all their heart, and I loved it. I found pairings I would never have thought of, I read stories that made me laugh or be impressed with the quality of the writing or ship one specific fan author's version of two characters really hard, and I just felt more connected to people in fandom that otherwise didn't overlap with me in any way, because I could listen and get good stuff out of what they felt.

But, the more people talking about what they ship has devolved into them talking about why this is a sign of good taste or superior morality, or asserting this ship is "the best" ... the more I found myself back-buttoning out in two seconds, flat. I really think fans make complete asses of themselves when they bullshit about any of that, and expect the rest of us to take their claims seriously.

OP

(Anonymous) 2023-03-11 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry if it came across as trying to say my ship was definitively "the best" because I definitely don't think that. They make more sense to me and listing the reasons in the secret was I guess partially trying to explain to myself why I prefer them, because I've never said those things out loud before.

I have no problem with my friend (or anyone else for that matter) shipping another pairing than me, I just wish she wouldn't make fun of me for it.

(Anonymous) 2023-03-12 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
Naryt

Wow, you reminded me of ship_manifesto and I realized that I miss it a lot.