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⌈ Secret Post #5932 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm distancing myself from a friend and its rough, over the past few months its become more and more obvious that this is a pretty one sided friendship with me doing most of the work/putting in most of the effort and I'm tired of it.

Like our birthdays are 12 days apart in the same month and for the last 3 years she hasn't wished me happy birthday, she hasn't even mentioned it and I legit think she forgot. She's always bitching to me about her asshole boyfriend and I'm tired of hearing about him. She never asks how I am, it feels like she only contacts me when she wants something or is bored. And when we do get together, I'm the one who has to go pick her up because she doesn't drive and still lives with her parents, and they don't want people in their house when they're at work so we have to come to my house or go somewhere else. No shame living with parents, I get it, but she's nearly 30 and I'm like can't you get an uber here? Nope, she doesn't want to. I'm just tired of her shit, tbh.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

You are quite right to be tired of that BS and also right to distance yourself from it. It sucks having to put in the effort to maintain a relationship on your own, especially when you get so little from it.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry. It's hard to know when to back off from spending time with people. If you feel like she's not supportive of you in ways that make you feel good and grateful to have her around, a break from her at least is good.

Handling my own dying friendship. Another friend I'd spoken to about this gave me some advice. Ask yourself "does this relationship uplift me?"

A friend is someone you choose to spend time with. Of course, some days a friend is in need of feeling supported more than giving support, but overall, how do you feel about yourself and your friend in your friendship?

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Ayart

Ehh i get that sometimes she needs to vent about her boyfriend and just wants me to listen and support her, but. I'm just so tired of the broken record aspect of it: its always the same complaints and she won't listen to anyone, when she's the one who asks for advice. Its draining, its frustrating.