[ SECRET POST #5932 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5932 ⌋

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Notes:

Will be missing a Friday post this week (traveling!). Just a heads up!

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Comments

Vent thread

[philstar22]

For all your venting needs.

Re: Vent thread

[philstar22]

So, I came out to my mother today. Was...weird. On the one hand, she didn't freak out or get angry or disown me or anything. On the other hand, she made it clear she still believes what she believes. And then she said that she maybe understands a little because of how men can often treat larger women?

WTF, Mom? I'm not bi by choice. I didn't choose to be attracted to women anymore than I chose to be attracted to men. It isn't because I don't want to deal with fatphobic men. And frankly, women can be plenty fatphobic too. I'm bi because that's who I am.

I guess this was about the best I could expect. At least she's not kicking me out and it appears as if she's just going to pretend this never happened.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

MMMH. I can relate to you a lot. My mom still refuses to acknowledged that I'm a lesbian and yeah, when I came out a couple of years ago she said something along the lines of "you just wait and you'll find a man who love you even if you're masculine" (for context: I'm an overweight butch woman) as if I wanted to be a lesbian because I couldn't find love with men. ://

It was very strange and the beginning, but then I reflected on that and I accepted that my mother, who's 69 years old now, has some limitations. Even if she's not homophobic, she's still pretty ignorant and refuses to really dive into the complexity of sexual preferences and identities. And... that's OK. I don't really care that much.

She still loves me. She doesn't really understand me, but it's something she never did, so it's not something that I miss terribly from my relationship with her.

I hope everything will be alright for you! Hang in there. Dealing with people's confusion when you come out is pretty hilarious in hindsight.

Re: Vent thread

[tabaqui]

Weekend from hell.
Seizures, ERs, concussions, a totaled car, a huge outlay of money to a predatory tow company (the city called them to the accident site instead of letting us call someone), and I think i've slept about 6 hours since Thursday night. Oh - also - idiot Program Manager at my work fucking up our timesheets and so our pay will most likely be late.

Monstrous and almost-son-in-law are fine, but holy. Fuck. I need a day off. For a month.

Tomorrow - hour long trip with exSO and Monstrous to look at cars (know someone who knows someone). Gonna be fun.

Re: Vent thread

[philstar22]

Wow. That sounds really awful. I really hope you get some time for yourself. And I hope everything heals.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Holy shit; I hope you and yours are okay, sorry all that happened to you and I hope things get better.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Oh goodness, I'm wishing you well!

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Disabled and trying to move out. My family knows I'm trying to move out, and they absolutely are not approving of it. I mentioned this before and someone said to Gray Rock it, and I do agree that seems to be helping. But like oh god, my only hope of getting out right now is if the section 8 person doesn't slap me down for having savings in my bank I forgot about. It's not even that much....

Re: Vent thread

[tabaqui]

Having savings barring you from housing is so FUCKING STUPID, arrgh.
Good luck, OP!!

And if the section 8 person doesn't know about it yet or something, just withdraw it and hide it somewhere, like - move it all to paypal or something.

Fucking stupid housing BULLSHITE.

Re: Vent thread

[philstar22]

Sorry you are going through all that. I really hope you are able to move out and that the section 8 people cooperate.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

*slips into the floor*

*resurfaces in another room*

*murders someone*

*pops back into the floor and goes elsewhere*

Thanks for the thread!

(I am 12 years old inside, forgive me)

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

AHHHHH! [points] It was the red one in the engine room... with the toilet paper roll?

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Anon who recently started an intensive and insane binge watch of Oz here.
I finished watching it yesterday. My neck hurts. The story from season 4 part II got so ??? the fuck happened there LOL The last season is pretty bad, yo.

The worst part is that one of my favorite characters dies a very very stupid nonsense death (I don't want to accidentally spoil anything, so I'm just going to say: Idzik) and I'm still bitter about it. WHYYYY

I'll probably post a few Oz secrets in the next few weeks because nobody I know has watched it and I need to vent my love and frustration.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

This is very exciting. I watched the whole thing while it was originally airing and binged it again during quarantine. I'll be sure to comment.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Was forced to block 'peas' on Tumblr. Because someone I follow kept posting dishes with peas in them and I effin' hate peas. (This is the best worst problem I've had all year. Lmao.)

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

lmao I love this

(I also love peas, give me all the peas you don't want, I will take them lol)

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm distancing myself from a friend and its rough, over the past few months its become more and more obvious that this is a pretty one sided friendship with me doing most of the work/putting in most of the effort and I'm tired of it.

Like our birthdays are 12 days apart in the same month and for the last 3 years she hasn't wished me happy birthday, she hasn't even mentioned it and I legit think she forgot. She's always bitching to me about her asshole boyfriend and I'm tired of hearing about him. She never asks how I am, it feels like she only contacts me when she wants something or is bored. And when we do get together, I'm the one who has to go pick her up because she doesn't drive and still lives with her parents, and they don't want people in their house when they're at work so we have to come to my house or go somewhere else. No shame living with parents, I get it, but she's nearly 30 and I'm like can't you get an uber here? Nope, she doesn't want to. I'm just tired of her shit, tbh.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Having a crush on a famous person you’re also extremely jealous of results in one goddamn unpleasant obsession, especially when you have mental disorders that cause obsessions to thrive. It’s a perfect storm.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Why does training people how to do the more complicated aspects of my job drain me so damn badly? I mean, no, it doesn't help that along the way I'm finding new ways a department we work with has staggering levels of incompetence in the ranks and only two managers (out of five) willing to fight for running a tighter ship. It does make me feel better about how relatively well my team works together, but still.

Re: Vent thread

[dani_phantasma]

(Making collapsible bc gross will connect to this)

Re: Vent thread

[pantswarrior]

I'm too tired to vent so I'm sure it comes out more as whining, but aaaugh it's now been about 24 hours since I discovered something seemed to be very wrong with one of my buns, and while I do not in the slightest regret being up with him most of the night and pushing myself to get him to the vet and do all kinds of things in an attempt to help him...

I'm so tired and I want a break. But now that I've gotten him breathing easier and gotten a little water in him, I need to mix up some critical care and try to get carbs and fiber into him, and I doubt I'll get to sleep much tonight either.

(And since I was driving around town to the vet multiple times today, I couldn't dare to eat or drink anything, and I'm so thirsty now but my guts hate me for spending so long sitting up. And I didn't get to have coffee so I'll probably have a withdrawal headache tomorrow.)

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

I wish my tinnitus would go away.

I know that it is not a serious medical issue for me, but it sure is a dratted nuisance.

I am also a polyglot. This means that autocorrect is probably going to up and murder me one of these days. All of those false cognates and homonyms...

...even though I have foreign language keyboards installed for my touch screen tablet.

...cries in too smart for my own good...

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Probably inflammatory but usually no one sees comments at this time of the day so whatever.
But I've seen news about some HP TV show or whatever from my fandom friend's channel. And I am thinking about dropping this friend. I am tired. I am so angry at all this wankers who continue licking shitty billionaire's boots.

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Weather report: snow not likely until mid-morning

Snow: hahahahahahahaha I'm showing up at midnight because I'm a cunt

Me: I hate heavy bulky coats and I checked the weather app like gullible human and I'm going to wear my light hoodie.

Fuck the snow, man.

I fucking get it. We need it but it's goddamm fucking April and all through the winter it was a lot of ice and cold and snow. If I could have a brawl with the weather creator, I'd go in intent on dying in battle. Can't kill the weather but I will die pissed with fists.

I hate the winter. I hate fall too. I hate wearing heavy bulky clothes. I hate jeans even though they're the most convenient pants to wear. Guess this is just a whinging comment

Re: Vent thread

[(Anonymous)]

Not answering your phone while working? Great! Got a job to do. Gotta stay focused.
You could switch it off, you could put it on do not disturb, you could leave it somewhere safe away from where you're working...
But you've chosen to yell at it to shut up when it makes a noise. Nice work. Thanks.