[ SECRET POST #5961 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5961 ⌋

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Comments

Re: How do you not care what anyone thinks of you?

[meadowphoenix]

my advice: physically try to find a place with people like you who are uninterested in certain aspects of life. it's much easier to avoid feeling judgment when you have a place where you simply aren't judged as much.

second: if you feel like there is distance between you and your family and friends, are there things you can do to bridge that? do you like kids or want to be involved even if you don't want them yourself? would your friends and family appreciate that? if not, are there aspects to you where your friends can, or should value you perspective? from what you're saying it seems like that's part of the issue, not just judgment, but it's not seeming like they value what you have to say. and if they're your friends, there really should be something about you they value and that they're willing to demonstrate they value.

third: sometimes it's easy to overamplify the judgment we get from peers because we are aware that there is some unhappiness in our life elsewhere or we don't have a clear view of our future, long-term or short-term. so think about it: what do you value about your life? where do you get joy? do you want to do more of that? is there a goal you can focus on reaching? do you feel like you contribute something to your environment? if you don't, what do you want to contribute?