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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-05-02 07:00 pm

[ SECRET POST #5961 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5961 ⌋

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Re: How do you not care what anyone thinks of you?

(Anonymous) 2023-05-03 04:58 am (UTC)(link)
I think an earlier anon said something very relevant and wise - that not caring about what others think depends a great deal on how comfortable you are with yourself. A person who feels happy and secure with their life and the way they live it generally doesn't care what others think. Because why would they? Happiness is the proof that you're doing it right, regardless of what anyone else's standards. Of course, that's not easy to achieve.

IMO, you're very hard on yourself. It's a challenge to live independently and support oneself in this day and age. Wealth is more than most of us can hope to achieve, period. I'm in a similar position in that I don't have children or a career that I find fulfilling. I'm content with the former, still working on the latter. I try to think about what I really want out of life, and then I try to figure out how to best reach those goals. It's a work in progress, always. But as long as I'm working on it, that is satisfying to me even if I don't always succeed.