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fandomsecrets2023-05-08 05:59 pm
[ SECRET POST #5967 ]
⌈ Secret Post #5967 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 12:48 am (UTC)(link)I actually like Xander, but none of the hate for him ever bothered me. I can actually get a lot of it, even though I still like him anyways. So while I could agree with them that Xander does have more detractors than Spike, I can’t agree with the way they’re acting at all. It’s honestly weird that they’re so angry and combative over this.
Also, they got their answer about a place that has a lot of Spike hate, and they immediately dismissed it just because it’s Twitter? Nah, that’s disingenuous and blatant goalpost moving.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 01:23 am (UTC)(link)I asked for a link, a post, something, but all they offered was some weak shit: "I don't keep track of every Spike hate post." Which just screams how it's just so easy to find!
While I can guarantee every Buffy fan space not pro-Xander has Xanderslander. Every. Single. Day. Non-stop.
Go on R/reddit right now and I promise there's at least one post bashing Xander and none bashing Spike. Go on. Look.
And there will be a Xander bashing post tomorrow and the next day. And the day after that. And the day after that...
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 02:24 am (UTC)(link)It does nothing of the sort. I don't care if the OP is referring to years of frustrating conversations that they had with friends in real life and can't "prove" happened even if they wanted to, or just isn't the sort of person who grudge-saves links to posts that make them angry, or simply wants to hang out here instead of trying to find examples elsewhere and link to Spike-hate in the process. I believe them. I've been in fandom long enough to know that the people who gather on different platforms tend to develop fairly different consensus readings about characters and some of them can be punishing. And there've been people yelling about how anyone who didn't turn on Spike after the rape attempt is proving themselves a traitor to woman-kind since the damn episode came out. So, if Buffy's still something people talk about, I really doubt that ever went away.
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(Anonymous) 2023-05-09 01:06 am (UTC)(link)Buffy the Vampire Slayer was my shit back in the day, and despite the crap Joss pulled on the cast, Charisma Carpenter in particular, I still love Buffy. It got me into fandom.
Xander is my least favorite Scoob, but he's still one of the gang, and the hate he gets is over-the=top and inescapable. I can't watch ninety-nine percent of Buffy TikTok because people will not shut the fuck up about hating Xander. Or hang out on r/buffy without every other post turning into a: Xander sucks! circle-jerk. It's ruining my enjoyment of a fandom I've been a part of for decades.
Now people want to pretend Spike is some super hated Buffy character, when I know for a fact, there are plenty of bubble spaces where Spike is lionized as a flawless sex GOD. Which makes their whining obvious, fucking bullshit, and I. Am. Done.
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