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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-05-28 04:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #5987 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5987 ⌋

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Re: Men who don't fucking listen.

(Anonymous) 2023-05-29 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I get you OP. I had such bad experiences with men in my family growing up that I was so HAPPY to discover I'm ace. I got me an ace wife and I don't have to deal with their bullshit!

I had:
1 abusive dad
1 absent, apologist brother (he was never around but swears Dad did that to me because he loves me!)
1 fundamentalist christian brother (racist, homophobic, etc etc) whose best friend tried to groom me (he was 23, I was 14)
1 cop uncle (ACAB is TRUTH)

Learned the lesson young that the best American man is an absent American man.

(yada yada yada Not All Men, whatever)

Re: Men who don't fucking listen.

(Anonymous) 2023-05-29 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
It isn’t all men, but the men who genuinely aren’t like that know they’re not being referred to, and don’t take offense. It’s the ones who immediately get defensive and go all “no tall men!” that bring suspicion on themselves that they are that kind of guy. Especially when they follow it up with some casual misogyny like they so often do.