[ SECRET POST #6028 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6028 ⌋

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[Back From the Brink]



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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I mind my own business, but I'm beyond tired of being told what characters other (mostly female) fans are morally obligated to like, what ships (and types of ships) other fans are morally obligated to ship, what porn other people are morally obligated to read, what headcanons they allowed to have, etc. with snide insinuations that if those fans don't do what the pontificator/activist wants them to, it can only be because they must be racist, misogynist, transphobic, biphobic, homophobic, etc., etc., etc. It's the constant assumption of bad faith of anyone in transformative (which again, is mostly female) who doesn't toe the line some fandom moralizer has decided to set. Maybe one time in twenty, there might be something racist or homophobic or whatever going on, but the other 19 it's just the same old ship war and character stanning bullshit trying to dress itself up in SJ terminology. I am sick and tired of fandom activists acting like any personal preference that other fans might have that doesn't line up with their own is somehow bad or insidious.

This is especially true when it comes to things like shipping where who an individual finds attractive very often plays a part. Sexual attraction is a very private, personal thing, and no one owes any particular person or group of people their personal sexual interest, let alone imaginary characters who don't even exist. No individual fan owes other fans the specific fanworks they want. Fandom is for fun, and as long as someone isn't being a dick to someone else they should get to play the way they want to. Be kind, have fun, and keep in mind that other fans' fandom lives do not have to revolve around you or your faves.

While there is a conversation to be had about societal standards of attractiveness, I don't think shaming and guilt-tripping other individual fans for not fangirling the proper, progressive way is a productive way to go about it. It may get people to be quiet about personal preferences/ships that the moralizer doesn't like, but they won't be happy and they definitely won't want to play in the moralizer's sandbox. Just let other people like what they like, and make your corner of fandom a fun place to play. It may not be a big place, but the people in it will be genuinely interested in the character/pairing and they'll be happy.

[(Anonymous)]

This is an outstanding comment, and I'm glad I read it. And the social conversation to be had about social standards of attractiveness could also stand to be so much broader than exhortations to try to make up for all of the ways society is messed up by expressing attraction - real or faked - indiscriminately.

[(Anonymous)]

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(Especially when those exhortations are disproportionately aimed at women. Because apparently, if you're female, it's a real sin to admit to finding anyone unattractive, ever. And allegedly so harmful.)

The picture in my mind's eye when I hear arguments against letting women express the preferences that they actually have, sexually, is of Scar, saying "now, where have I seen this before, let me think ..." in his ineffable, sarcastic drawl. It helps me remember that someone haranguing the world about virtuous shipping isn't entitled to my taking that - or them - seriously.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, very true. Fandom has expanded the range of characters I find attractive, and it's thanks to the fans who share their own infectious enthusiasm over who they find attractive, not the ones who try to shame everyone else for not sharing their tastes.