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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-10 04:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #6030 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6030 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 03:19 pm (UTC)(link)
How was I an asshole to them? My initial comment hurt their feelings because of their guilt over past shitty behavior. That’s not on me, that’s on them. It’s for them to own it which obviously they have and that’s a GOOD thing. I didn’t insult them or do anything to make them feel worse. Are you upset because I didn’t say that because they no longer compulsively lie that the lies they told in the past are erased? Because they aren’t. And if you read their comment, the lying wasn’t just to the people that they felt they had to lie to, it became a compulsory behavior. If anyone from that time in their life is still in their life now, it’s entirely plausible that the trust between them isn’t as strong as anon thinks. That’s the consequence of being a dishonest person no matter the reason for it *shrug*

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Nah, you're assuming a lot. They didn't like being insulted (which is what your claiming anyone who does this is a sack of shit was). That's not the same thing as "they feel bad because they were a bad person." Maybe you want them to feel like a bad person, but you know what? That's why people are saying you're being an asshole.

You've probably never met this person, and yet you're acting like you get to play the role of someone they wronged in the past. And stand up on behalf of whoever you imagine they offended by not disclosing what they did with themselves in their free time. The "crime" you're accusing them of seems ridiculous to me, and yeah, like defensive asshole behavior.

You may have entirely valid reasons to be angry with other people for lying to you in the past. That, I know nothing about. But I see how you were treating the person who was right in front of you, upthread, and I don't think they deserved any of that.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
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