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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-16 02:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6036 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6036 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 09:36 pm (UTC)(link)
The same reason most trans!fic has an over-emphasis on penetrative sex and reads like standard m/f is because all smut has an over-emphasis on penetrative sex, m/m, m/f, written, visual, fanfic, pornhub, etc(my anecdotal experience of f/f is that it's mostly oral and sometimes strap-ons, but I won't consider what I've seen as the norm, nor consider mainstream f/f porn as representative of what actual queer women like as 90% of that porn is made for men).

I could get into a long-winded theory as to why, but to be simple about it: patriarchal notions as to what 'proper' sex is colors the general cultural notion of what 'counts' as sex and since penetration usually feels best for cis-men, most porn focuses on that as the be and all and end all of smut, including smut written by women as we're not immune to cultural pressures and expectations. This doesn't mean that women don't enjoy penetrative sex yada, yada, or that's it bad to write it, write what you enjoy and all that, but it ultimately means that most porn is very samey and revolves around some kind of lower-orifice being penetrated.

This is my long winded way of saying: you are correct OP, but there are reasons for it and it's not a trans!fic only thing.