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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)I'm trans, but I am NOT here for trans headcanons. It sucks enough going through all of this irl, without seeing it in fiction for characters I like.
It's either Your Fav M/M Pairing, But Now It's Just Het or misery porn. Blech.
I live and let live, of course, but this shit better be warned for so I can avoid it.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 07:47 pm (UTC)(link)(The way the one with the vagina ends up bottoming as a rule. Play around with ideas, please!)
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)It's the weird focus on the genitalia for me too, not just in the sense that it reads as het, but also in the kind of uncomfortable/squicky way that it feels like the entirety of Character's transness is in their pants. Like, a fic that explores a character's transness, even through the context of porn, sure... but it's always just The Exact Same Character But They Have A Dick/Vagina, which sits wrong with me on every level.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)If I were looking for m/m, that's not what I'm looking for. If I were looking for trans m/m that is ALSO not what I'm looking for. What you've written here is het. Het with the woman called by male pronouns as some kind of shitty camo. Just own it.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)I read a story recently on the Fantastic Beasts kinkmeme on DW, that I think did a much better job with what the person wanting to read was actually aiming for. They prompted for Grindelwald/Graves, with Grindelwald magically turning Graves' dick into a vagina and fucking him. Well, raping him, given the characters involved.
It just seemed so much more on target. The idea had nothing to do with wanting a trans character, it had to do with wanting that character to experience (disturbingly) being on the recieving end of het sex. And the story owned it and I thought that part was brilliant.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 09:36 pm (UTC)(link)I could get into a long-winded theory as to why, but to be simple about it: patriarchal notions as to what 'proper' sex is colors the general cultural notion of what 'counts' as sex and since penetration usually feels best for cis-men, most porn focuses on that as the be and all and end all of smut, including smut written by women as we're not immune to cultural pressures and expectations. This doesn't mean that women don't enjoy penetrative sex yada, yada, or that's it bad to write it, write what you enjoy and all that, but it ultimately means that most porn is very samey and revolves around some kind of lower-orifice being penetrated.
This is my long winded way of saying: you are correct OP, but there are reasons for it and it's not a trans!fic only thing.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)Like, can people bring in weird fucked up gender stereotypes? Obviously yeah, and it sucks, but people do that with completely cis gay fic all the time also, it's still not het.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-16 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)I'm sure there are some cis people using it as a fetish thing, though considering the amount of cis M/M that's written by cis women I'd be very careful about throwing stones in that glass house. But from what I've seen most trans-fic comes from trans writers who are just writing fic about the kinds of bodies and sex that they know. It's not some secret conspiracy or trick to put "icky het smut" into your pure M/M or whatever, it's just trans people writing fic for themselves the same way we all have been for years.
Like be into whatever you want, YMMV and all that, but the constant framing of trans fic as some sinister "out to get your dogs[fanfic]" movement is just... bizarre. No one is out to get your cis M/M smut, it's just people having fun, let them be.
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 02:36 am (UTC)(link)The 1st thing: OP dislikes smutfic where characters who aren't canonically trans, are trans in the fic. This is a preference. It's fine. There's nothing wrong with disliking it.
The 2nd thing: OP thinks most smutfics with trans characters are het in disguise. This is a baseless assumption with deeply transphobic roots, and I don't mean roots from the writers of the fic. (Because as much as you think you know what their intent was, you don't. The fact that you think you know their intent was to write het says something about you, not about them.) This assumption is going to upset people.
In the comments (and moreso in the comments on the "Secrets you don't want to make" thread with this secret in it), we have people getting shirty because they see people getting upset at the 2nd thing and assume it's linked to the 1st thing. When it's not. "Don't imply that gay sex is really het sex because it's PIV and one of them is trans; that's transphobic" seems to be getting read as "I take issue with this entire secret, including the OP having their own personal preferences" which leads to rebuttals of "You can't make me like something I don't like!" No. I don't see anyone saying you have to like something you don't like. What you can do, is say you don't like something, without saying you also know why people like it and that the reason is very problematic and you're just concerned really.
Or as I also see, that the reason is not problematic because "if they want to disguise their het as trans gay fic that's ~FINE~ I just want them to tag for it!" Here's what you can say instead: "I just want them to tag who is trans in their fic." That's it. Problem solved.
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