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fandomsecrets2023-07-16 02:59 pm
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)Thing is, tho, if you’re reading trans couple fic, odds are, the sex scenes aren’t gonna be so… trans-friendly, as it were. I think it’s something to be expected, especially if the two involved are the same gender, with wholly different sexual organs.
don’t get me wrong. I think that if you’re going in to read m/m, f/f, you’re going to expect same/same. But when it comes to queer-lit, the sexual bit is always up in the air. Part of that is remembering that t/t may mean that there is a p&v involved. Can you write it in a way where PiV is skipped over? Sure. However, the reality is: the author (who is probably not as old as we’d like) may truly not know how to write that in a way that isn’t… Well. Hetero. Because despite breaking gender norms and expectations, most people still view P&V as being het; even if unintentional.
Sad but true; you have to cntl+f for any squicky words/phrases that you know are gonna be a problem for you. (god knows I have to, no matter what a pain in the dick it is).
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(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 09:43 pm (UTC)(link)I agree, and I think AYRT was wrong to direct their comment at the OP. There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting stuff to be tagged so you can avoid it or read it for any reason.
But also, there was absolutely someone ITT who was affirmatively saying that all PIV fic is het even if trans characters are involved. It wasn't OP saying that AFAIK but it was an opinion being expressed.