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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-16 02:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #6036 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6036 ⌋

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Re: THE GREAT DEBATE: Cum vs Come vs ?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
"Cum" is an instant nope for me. It comes across as deeply immature to me, and also just the wrong kind of filthy. I completely disagree with the people who say that "cum" is dirtier than "come"; I read some eleven-out-of-ten FILTHY smut that is no less filthy because it uses "come" and not "cum."

"Cum" is not more filthy, IMO, it's just different filthy, and for me it's the wrong kind of filthy.

Also, for me "cum" is always going to evoke the wildly objectifying het-male pornography that was basically 99% of pornographic content when I was growing up. The kind that treats women like bouncy, pouty holes to be fucked*. ("Busty cum slut gets railed," or, "Cum-hungry librarian three-on-one," or, "Barely legal brunette couldn't get enough of my hot cum," or fucking whatever. Female bodies waxed and oiled and painted and inflated and posed to evoke no personality or individuality beyond what flavor of sex toy this one is.) There is just nothing that is ever going to scrub that association off of the word for me, sorry.

*There is nothing morally wrong with people liking porn that objectifies women. It's whatever. Kink tomato. But there's also nothing wrong with me saying it makes me want to weld my fucking legs shut, and anything I associate with that kind of pornography is not exactly conducive to my enjoyment.

Re: THE GREAT DEBATE: Cum vs Come vs ?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
Yes. To all of this, yes yes yes.

Re: THE GREAT DEBATE: Cum vs Come vs ?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
That's interesting, I see where you're coming from and why it would be a huge turnoff. My association of the term with gay porn and gay cruising is why "cum" sounds more natural and dirty to me in some contexts personally.

Re: THE GREAT DEBATE: Cum vs Come vs ?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-17 06:20 am (UTC)(link)
This, exactly.