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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-22 05:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #6042 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6042 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-07-23 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'd been employed full-time in job that involved responding to emails, phone calls, and in-person help requests from strangers for 3 years at the time that I nearly had a panic attack at my own birthday party about the possibility that I might upset people by blowing out the candles wrong.

I then proceeded to actually make it awkward by waiting too long because I was internally freaking out, and someone had to nudge me to do it.

TLDR: as people have said, brain disorders are fucking weird, you don't know what's going to set it off, different for everyone and different for the same person at different times, and Work Mode (or even just 'people are looking at me IRL' mode) is different. for comments, there's no one to nudge me.

I'm 98% anxiety free these days and I make an effort to comment pretty frequently, but I was a lurker for a long time. It was just easier. /shrug

(Anonymous) 2023-07-23 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
+1, work mode is different to socialisation mode. I have a full time job and while it's exhausting and draining, it's doable. Personally I have no trouble leaving comments, that's not a big deal for me, but I have a lot of anxiety around being social with my perfectly nice family members.