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fandomsecrets2023-09-22 04:13 pm
[ SECRET POST #6104 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6104 ⌋
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05. [WARNING for discussion of antisemitism]

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06. [WARNING for possible discussion of underage ships/etc]

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(Anonymous) 2023-09-23 12:12 pm (UTC)(link)Same. TBH I learned through 2 friendships from the same fandom what sort of friendship works better for me.
Friendship 1: after the first fandom died, we are able to talk to each other on things we enjoy together as well as on topics maybe only one of us is into
Friendship 2: after the first fandom died, we were only able to keep conversations going if we were actively into the same things so eventually our interactions stopped
I understand it's a lot easier to routinely engage with people who have similar interests, but it made me understand that if I can't keep up with someone else's interests and we talk a lot less because of it, it's not because I suck. It just means that not all people vibe the same.
My IRL best friend and I used to be into so many of the same things, we watch what the other person reccs but we also are honest when something doesn't interest us while also being actively supportive by engaging somewhat (I've never been into The Walking Dead but my best friend is still into it so I ask them for updates when I know a new season/show is on).