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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-09-22 04:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #6104 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6104 ⌋

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03. [SPOILERS for Free Guy]




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04. [SPOILERS for the Barbie movie]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of antisemitism]




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(Anonymous) 2023-09-23 05:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Not OP

There's a level of give and take in every relationship. I think when I find myself talking to someone and if we can't show genuine interest in each other - including each other's hobbies - one of us will eventually be the one who contributes a lot less and either the friendship fades or eventually we can talk to each other about other things together.

If the friendship feels highly transactional, especially as the friend who isn't into The Thing, it can be painful to know if the friendship is worth salvaging or not.

I guess in terms of someone you would consider a friend, if you don't like interacting with your friend outside of the common interest/fandom, maybe it's better to re-evaluate what this friendship really means to you (as a general statement, not me trying to impart advice onto the person I replied to).