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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-09-26 05:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #6108 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6108 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Shadow Gambit: The Cursed Crew]



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[MCU, Star Wars, Kyou Kara Maou, Blakes 7, many others]



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(Anonymous) 2023-09-27 09:14 am (UTC)(link)
A little OT...I like Dr K but some of his talking points have made me a little uncomfortable.

Recently I stopped watching a video after 5 minutes because I felt really uncomfortable with the idea that persisting to work on a relationship despite the red flags as something good/worth doing.

I understand it's good to push oneself to uncomfortable territory and work through the problem rather than give up right away because working through a problem is harder than noping out.
But having been raised as a scapegoat and working on my codependency, I'd be in situations that got toxic or abusive.
And it's like...I feel like I'm more prone to end up in abusive relationships and now my trust in general is even more uncertain because I always keep hearing "stand up for yourself"/"know when to leave/distance yourself" alongside "You're lonely because you don't give people chances".

Do you see why I'm alone and frozen in terror unwilling to ask for help?

(Anonymous) 2023-09-27 09:42 am (UTC)(link)
Same here, anon. Same.