[ SECRET POST #6120 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6120 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 41 secrets from Secret Submission Post #875.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

SA

For clarity: what really happened was NOT a good faith clumsy move. It was a shitty thing to do and I can’t fathom how anyone would think it could be taken positively.

BUT what the secret relates and what OP has shared in the comments are two totally different scenarios. The one in the secret isn’t the other fan being an asshole. So I think you’ve somehow missed that many responses in the entire secret thread are about one or the other, depending on if someone saw OP’s comments or not.

[(Anonymous)]

How quickly you forget what you wrote:

"As it’s written, your secret makes you sound like an asshole. With the added context, the other person is an asshole and it’s shocking and awful that happened to you :("

As written, it still doesn't make OP sound like an asshole and your doubling down of trying to defending the person you then call an asshole is very telling.

[(Anonymous)]

What am I doubling down on? Telling of what?

The world isn’t going to cater to you. If someone in fandom does something you don’t like, it’s on you how you respond to that. What the person did is relevant in others judging the response if you’re going to say, submit a secret to a community about fandom secrets for judgement.

The anon was an asshole who did an asshole thing. But that wasn’t clear in the secret. In the secret, it looked like the anon was a well intentioned social misfit and OP’s lingering resentment made them look like an asshole. And, as I keep pointing out to you, that isn’t what happened at all. Again, not sure how you’re totally not understanding this.

[(Anonymous)]

So... you didn't say that OP was an asshole...

Found it! You're the one with your head in your ass about how OP is an asshole because they felt hurt by something that most people here recognize as genuinely hurtful.

Work on your reading comprehension. I didn’t say that at all. What happened to OP was genuinely hurtful and the fandom rando IS an asshole. But so are you because you’ve chosen to pretend I called OP an asshole for how they were hurt by something hurtful.

Except that you did...

In the secret, it looked like the anon was a well intentioned social misfit and OP’s lingering resentment made them look like an asshole.

Work on your communication skills. I've tried to hash this out with you, but you only choose to say what makes you seem right in the moment. Truth doesn't seem to matter to you, so I wash my hands of you.

[(Anonymous)]

You definitely need to brush up on your reading comprehension because that isn’t me calling OP an asshole. That’s part of me pointing out how context changed things. IF it happened as the secret states, then I would have thought OP was an asshole. And yet again, that isn’t how it happened and I don’t think OP is an asshole.

Which is something OP and I discussed before you jumped to the conclusion that I have done something like send a gif of a celebration in response to the news of a loved one’s death.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah how fucking date they try to connect with you through your shared interest instead of an empty platitude!

"As it’s written, your secret makes you sound like an asshole. With the added context, the other person is an asshole and it’s shocking and awful that happened to you :("

"In the secret, it looked like the anon was a well intentioned social misfit and OP’s lingering resentment made them look like an asshole."

YTA